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- No lies, but still working on doing the plan every day, every day, every day. And fixing relationships is hard. Any bump in the road big or little, is damaging to the progress, and I do so want to make progress to the end of the tunnel.
- Good question. I don't really know other that having some ideas about my stupid mistakes from discussions with my wife. But National Geographic has a big article in the June 2017 issue that may be interesting to you all. Just thought I'd let...
- I have to say I am glad to see some of you young or youngerish folks finding this webside and working on fixing yourselves. I am a 62 year old guy who lied for many many years, and am now seriously trying to get myself together. I feel like I...
- Just a quick comment about the life of a liar. So badly wish I had figured this out when I was a kid. I was taught not to, but when the pressure was on my weaknesses took over and I blew it. Time and again for many years. So now it's gonna take many...
- I've been talking about coming up with a plan and doing it every day. And that the doing it every day was an important part of it all. That last statement was definitely true. I've not been doing it every day, and it has hurt my wife and set...
- We are quite the lot. Damaged relatiinships, careers, self esteem and other things. Its a narrow road with a slippery slope we walk, and the more attention we pay to our footsteps, the more likely it is we will not going off into the slippery slope...
- Not mine, but all of the replies on this website. I've been working on getting over lying for 30+ years and have found great ideas and support on this website. So just a thought for new people coming here for help, read often for the help you seek....
- Just 2 more of my cents for the ethos. The sooner you recognize your issues and start working on it, the better off you'll be. Less damage to yourself and your relationships, less mess to come up when fishy things come along, and it will be so...
- I have been lying for around 30+ years, and besides being an awful, screwed up person, I have damaged my wife's life and our relationship. I am working hard to repair things, but it takes a lot to change the way I think, habits, and other...
- This mess that I/we have created by lying to our families or others is a hard thing to fix. I have been working on it for 30+ years, and my wife has been by my side all of that time. It is a really long row to hoe (bad memories from thinning...
- This is a great website for those of us that have this problem with not telling the truth, and all the personality issues, damaged relationships, financial problems, and all the other things that comes with it. I know that I am not the only one...
- Not to brag or make anyone feel bad, I was just thinking about how lucky I am. After more than 30 years of lying, trying to fix myself and failing, and trying again, my wife has stuck with me thru an incredible amount of fear, uncertainty, feeling...
- Some of you may have heard me refer to my plan to fix my lying and repair my relationships. The plan, the plan, the plan. But so seriously, when I follow the plan, my life is better. Getting myself organanized so I can remember to do my plan has...
- All kind of thoughts have gone thru my head over these last few months, regarding how to fix myself and the damage I have done to my wife, family, finances, and myself. I really have made a mess of a lot of things and could have had a more...
- I have had a really bad idea in my head for many years that facilitated my lying, that made it seem okay to do, that I told myself I would lie about something to avoid a difficult situation, and that I would "fix it later". Just as an fyi to any of...