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  Non-verbal lying?

  Posted by: kcpandol

  Last Reply: jfonnyadt 07/26/2018

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  I’m wondering if any of you find that you lie nonverbally and if this causes as much damage if not more to your relationships. For example do you act like you’re really listening when you’re not, show concern when you don’t really feel it, etc.? I grew up in a family where this is the norm and has done more damage to my relationships than actual verbal lies. I have rigid expectations of how I should feel in any given situation, and if I don’t feel that way I either lie or become...

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  Posted: 07/21/2018

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  kcpandol commented on the discussion How do I tell people my lies.

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  Looking for help

  Posted by: kcpandol

  Last Reply: actuality 08/04/2018

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  Like a lot of others here I have reached a point where I just can't lie anymore. My partner can't take it anymore, and I can see that any more lying will permanently damage my life and my self esteem. I lie about my motives and feelings quite a bit, and this has really damaged the trust in my relationship, tortured my partner, and makes me feel like a bad person. I don't know anyone else who deals with this, it's one of those things you can't really admit or share with other people. I feel a...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 07/19/2018

  kcpandol joined the group Liars Anonymous.

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 07/19/2018

  kcpandol joined the group Healthy Relationships.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 07/19/2018

  kcpandol became friends with TeamDS.