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  So now what

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  Last Reply: Chicken-Butt 05/15/2018

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  My parents divorce after 34 years of marriage and my 87 year old father saying that he finally left because he "didn't feel safe," woke me up. It woke me up. Also doing something way out of my character also woke me up. Thank gawd for the grounded people in your life, can I get an amen? Amen!I married a very controlling abusive person. I've started to look for a new place to live and it's tough at any age but when you get older and you have little money but things are starting to take of...

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  Posted: 04/15/2018

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  I joke about being a millennial

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  Last Reply: realitytv 04/15/2018

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  The hard things for me right now are getting these intermitent phone calls from my family. Those. Those knock me out. It's like I should have been told to buckle up and have the fasten seat belt lights flicker a few frantic seconds later. My Dad called and left a v.m. the day off it being finialized to say: "I'm single now so have a drink for me."That felt manipulative and weighty and pitty and lame. I told him that my body reacted in hives and he offered to pay for a therapist but hey, can...

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  I joke about being a millennial

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  Posted: 03/29/2018

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  I was five when the first time I remember giving all of my gravity to an apology. My parents had just had a dramatic blowout threat to divorce. I wrote a letter to my mom saying that if they divorced it was all my fault. I remember handing her the letter in the garage. It's weird to love the things that are not your parents along the way. Like I loved the smell and the imprint of the oil leak onto the cement floor of the garage, who doesn't love that rainbowy patina that oil makes? It was also...

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