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bluesun
bluesun
what's the deal with anal sex???
my current boy friend is so into it, especially our 1st year together, all he ever asked me was if and when i was gonna give into trying anal sex. so asked him that question. and he said that all guys are into anal sex!

but all the past boyfriends i've had NONE of them ever asked me to try it, infat the subject NEVER even came up!
me and my current bf broke up one time temporarily for several months. i started dating this other guy and he jus got done with a nasty divorce... anyways... asked him about the thing that my bf said, and he said he had never thought of having anal sex and never cares to try it. the next guy i dated i asked him the same question, but he said the same that he would never try it and doesn't want to. anyways.... my bf now, we got back together after that... and till this day he sticks by it that ALL guys are into it, like it's a normal thing.

so which is it? and what are your opinions about anal sex?
deleted_user
deleted_user
LMFAO

Now that is funny. Thank you, i really needed that right now.
bluesun
bluesun
LMAO!!!! oh gosh that was hilarious!!!
MSM24
MSM24
HAHA it amazes me how many people "hate" it...... I guess I'm a weird one on here..... I thought everyone did it guess I'm just a little kinky lol. I think it is very intense and pleasureful lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think it is awful, makes me want to have a BM, and mine still wants it. He don't pressure too much about it though.

I am glad you guys got on this topic, I can see my guy isn't the only weirdo that wants this. I just think it does hurt too much, and is that pleasurable, and why would they pressure if they know you hate it?

He loves me to stick my tongue up his, I will occassionally, but Ewwww what comes out of there is on my mind when doing it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
OK, let's consider the facts. When you go to the bathroom you wash your hands when your done because of the germ issue. Now, how many of us would poop and then go eat food without washing our hands first? Yet some will "lick and play" with that area? Sorry....I think its a filthy practice. Gross!
deleted_user
deleted_user
ACTUALLY IT CAN BE VERY EROTIC AND SENSUALLY SATISFYING WHEN BEING LICKED THERE, ALTHOUGH EXTREME HYGIENE IS A MUST ........ WHEN SCRUBBED CLEAN, IS LIKE ANY OTHER PART OF THE BODY ....... AS THEY SAY ....... DON'T KNOCK IT TILL YOU'VE TRIED IT
deleted_user
deleted_user
i can't see a penis in my crack, lol. to painful however, we have tried the finger thing and it seem to arouse me some. but, the penis no. and my husband, you can't go near his anal, period.

so i don't know. i played with this guy anal outside of my husband because he was persistent with playing with me and he curled up like a female. he was so aroused by it, it did something special for him in his world. i was like damn, never saw a guy re act that way. very interesting to me
deleted_user
deleted_user
yo bluesum! did you say u shoved a dildo up your hunny butt and he actually liked it or did I read that wrong. Im totally gonna convice my guy to try it cuz maybe then he'll appreaciate that act for which I endure.
deleted_user
deleted_user
The tongue thing is kind of nice too, its called rimming. The thought of that makes me sick but if its what he wants then by all means go right ahead but dont expect me to do it. If you are planning to have anal sex, the best thing to use is a kind of anal lube that numbs, one of them is called anal ease or something like that. You can get it at a specialty store but beware of the effects, you will pay right after and for a while too. Full penetration is very very painful, so not worth making him happy in that area, he will just have to deal.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Let me say this:anal sex is not as bad as you all are making it out to be. I have been married for the past seven years and we sometimes decide to do anal. It does hurt if you're tense,don't use lubrication,and don't relax. It can be pleasurable but there has to be communication during anal sex or you're going to hurt or mess her up.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Medically, anal sex is very dangerous. It can cause destruction of the tissues that hold your bowels. And overtime, if you keep having anal sex, you will need to wear a diaper
beccakitten5
beccakitten5
I'm with Melin on this one and going to quote Samantha from satc "with the right man and the right lube oh hunny" but it's not for everyone, you don't want it then bugger your boyfriend, pun intended. Its normal for men to want/be intrigued by it but its even more normal for women to turn round ad say hell no, there is no need to do anything you don't want to ever.
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