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what's the deal with anal sex???
my current boy friend is so into it, especially our 1st year together, all he ever asked me was if and when i was gonna give into trying anal sex. so asked him that question. and he said that all guys are into anal sex!
but all the past boyfriends i've had NONE of them ever asked me to try it, infat the subject NEVER even came up!
me and my current bf broke up one time temporarily for several months. i started dating this other guy and he jus got done with a nasty divorce... anyways... asked him about the thing that my bf said, and he said he had never thought of having anal sex and never cares to try it. the next guy i dated i asked him the same question, but he said the same that he would never try it and doesn't want to. anyways.... my bf now, we got back together after that... and till this day he sticks by it that ALL guys are into it, like it's a normal thing.
so which is it? and what are your opinions about anal sex?
my current boy friend is so into it, especially our 1st year together, all he ever asked me was if and when i was gonna give into trying anal sex. so asked him that question. and he said that all guys are into anal sex!
but all the past boyfriends i've had NONE of them ever asked me to try it, infat the subject NEVER even came up!
me and my current bf broke up one time temporarily for several months. i started dating this other guy and he jus got done with a nasty divorce... anyways... asked him about the thing that my bf said, and he said he had never thought of having anal sex and never cares to try it. the next guy i dated i asked him the same question, but he said the same that he would never try it and doesn't want to. anyways.... my bf now, we got back together after that... and till this day he sticks by it that ALL guys are into it, like it's a normal thing.
so which is it? and what are your opinions about anal sex?
there are many reasons people love it. for me, i only rather have my assed played with. my hubby can do whatever he wants down there, just dont go shoving anything more than an fingertip in it. this might satisfy your bf...but fair is fair...you should get to try on him too.
for the men who kept pressuring me to go for it, id say "let me shove a dildo up your ass and then you can mine." this usually would shut them up.
and lets face if, if its a deal breaker for your bf then you sooo dont need him. and if he cant take no then you dont need that/him either.
it does feel great to be played with. anal sex was fun the few times i tried, but its not my cup of tea.
i have many friends who love it and do it often...its just part of the sex life vs. something special.
to each their own.
good luck
but yes, i do enjoy it getting played with, he's even licked me down there and it felt pretty darn good.
we are still together 3 years later, and ever since the dildo experience he has backed off the anal sex question. but every time he does bring it up, i just say the same thing, "well, let me go get my dildo to put in your ass and then we can have anal sex." actually, i even took him to look at strap-ons si i could shove one in his butt like i'm screwing him. he got pissed off and said guys don't do it like that. LMAO!
I always think of that being something Gay men like and do, so I would tell him if thats what you want go find a boyfriend, and Iam not knocking gays let me make that clear I do not judge people, but we all know what guys do.
Theres all kinds of things you can do to spice things up without doing that. I would say NOPE, don't like it, hit the road!!!!!!!!!!!! I've been through to much shit, to do any thing for anyone unless I want to. thats how I look at it. LOL
A FINGER AND A LICKING FEELS "REAL" GOOD, I HAVE TRIED ANAL SEX ONCE, WITH MY FIRST HUSBAND, HE WAS A FREAK IN BED, AND WANTED TO TRY IT ALL .... IT WAS A BIT UNCOMFORTABLE, BUT IT WAS OKAY I GUESS, NOT REALLY MY CUP OF TEA EITHER, AND THAT WAS ABOUT 20 YEARS AGO ..... I THINK IF TWO PEOPLE ARE COOL WITH IT, GO FOR IT, BUT TO PRESSURE ONE INTO IT, IS SELFISH, AND DE-MEANING ..... I HAVE TO SAY THE SUGGESTION OF SHOVING A " DILDO " UP HIS ASS IS PRICELESS !!! TOOK THE WIND OUT OF HIS SAILS, I BET !! LOL .....