Widows & Widowers Support Group

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Unanswered Prayers!

insecure
insecure
I just want to go and be with my Husband, is that to much to ask for? Every night I Pray to God to let me go be wiyh my Husband! He must be pretty busy it' 9 yrs. 7 months and I'm still here, and it doesn't get easier, as amatter of fact this yr. the worst absolute worst! and I'm not sure why and that is just sending me into this deep depresion but that's another story. I guess I just needed to vent!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Insecure, I totally understand the feeling of wanting the Lord to "let you be with your dear departed spouce". The Lord knows that is my "Grandest Feeling", or in other words what I want more than anything in the universe is to be with my Pattie for all eternity and as soon as possible. I can not presume to know what it feels like to want & need that for 9 1/2 years as I am currently nearing 1 1/2 years widowed. I don't believe that time is actually a major factor in whether this "terrible grief" gets better for us. The only thing I have noticed to this point is that the "pain" is just as brutal as the first day, but time has helped to create slightly better ways of COPING with my grief.

I hope and pray that you are able to find the strength and peace that the Lord deems sufficient for you to get thru the day. It seems he never fails us in that respect... Many blessings and prayers to you. -Sam
deleted_user
deleted_user
I also beg God every night to come and get me so I can be with my husband. It has only been five months for me, but it is so lonely and I just keep wishing and praying. My understand. Lot of hugs
songsofthenight
songsofthenight
I know God has His plan for me, just I don't know what it is, but the one thing I do know is, my bigbear wanted me to live my life to the fullest, for the both of us, and I plan on honoring bigbear by doing just that....while doing this I will do my best to live my life pleasing to God....and when the time comes God will call me home.....