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Talking to my Husband

diamond47m
diamond47m
Does anybody else talk to their late spouse? And do they answer you? I would swear that my husband answer's me in my head when I try to talk to him. Maybe I'm either totally going insane over his death,or something
deleted_user
deleted_user
My father passed in 2002, I talked to him all the time and now that my sister and Carmelo passed I talk to them too.
I really feel them all by me and living alone with my cats it is just as normal to me as if I was born to talk to talk the unseen loved ones.
My daughter is worried that the neighbors will have that crazy cat lady next door committed. :)
I just can not imagine a day that I would not talk to my dad, sister and loving Carmelo.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I talk to Donald quite regularly. I ask questions about what I should do about things and does he see what's going on here with me etc. I can't say I hear him answer, but I do get signs, like smelling his cologne or the Dove I have in a statue will be moved and I know no one moved it. If you are going insane, there are a lot of us going insane with you. I don't think anything we do pertaining our grief is crazy.......Jerrie
Wmsbaby
Wmsbaby
Yes I do often. I cry to him, and also fuss to him. Telling him I don't like this. I have felt he is responding sometimes. It is his voice I hear in my head. It feels more strange to not talk to him than to talk to him.
edithbathgate
edithbathgate
Constantly. He answers, too! Not audibly, but I feel he is around.