LOL I'm sorry but they way you said sightseeing made me laugh. I guess its our human nature, especially now with being on the emotional roller coaster and how it can change so quickly.

Don't be sorry! I find it funny too! Funny, ha ha! I never know what's coming next anymore!

Well an affirmation your brain still works. My sister in law for years joked that Spring wasn't here until the construction workers went shirtless. My Brother passed in 2000, My husband would joke about us take the orange barrel tour. He knew it cheered her up. She just mentioned it may be time for us to do it again. New to the route is a sanded volleyball court, behind the fire station, definitely on the list.
My hubs though was a pretty lean fighting machine, so they will need to be on top of thier game, to rate above a 5 ( yes we rated them)

Life is short! Take the tour! That's funny.

Thanks for the smile. Life does go on, but it is hard.

You're so young - too young to give up on that part of life. You should be looking. And dating - if you're ready. Sounds like you might be working up to it. Good for you!

That is one of my fun times as well...I guess being married I would see but not see...even early on in my grieving...................ff - 19 months, its nice to look at the eye candy around, even nicer when they look back and flirt...I am now 47...who knew?

I have been sightseeing...... what I don't understand is, how did these men, my age, get so old?...... some of them remind me of my father......

OMG....... looked in mirror......I am old too.....lol

when I was working, there was a gorgious man walked in the store.... I ran smack dad into a co-worker that was staring at him too. I have never seen such a gorgious man in my life. I am surprised i couldn't take my eyes off him.... lol.....

I'm not at that point yet...but I expect to be. It's then that I will know that I still have a pulse ;>
Good for you!

Cruising the Man Store (Home Depot) can be such a treat~ *wink*
I'm very disturbed by the men my age; they have no teeth, unruly eyebrows, nose & ear hair ~
For some reason, teeth are very important to me ~
And that hair has to go ~ Ick!

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I am currently unsupervised. I know, it freaks me out too! But the possibilities are endless .... ~me,me,me,me,me~

I just wish there were some good looking ones to look at around here.
The only ones I have seen are old, ugly or gay. Oh, and many are crippled too.

Obviously you are not dead yet! You are at a great age to meet someone new and start a whole new life. So, what's the problem, right?

These days, nice bodies and lovely faces are to be enjoyed no matter what your circumstances.

Tread softly and carry a big stick. Good luck and best wishes!

like that old saying...... Men are like parking spots, their either Handicap, or all the good ones are taken,,,,,,,

Whoa ///Back up Sandy! you brought my first out loud laugh today! I can't get what happened to those men our age. My husband always looked younger than his years, I am not near as "aged" as my younger sisters...