Prashant I am so sorry to hear about unexpected loss of your young wife. That must have been a horrible shock. Hopefully you will find strength through this board so that you can help your daughter. We are here for you.

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers. Roxanne

Appreciate your thoughts and prayers. I am still in shock. My wife meant the world to me.

Hi...I am so sorry for your loss.
There is nothing harder than losing the love of your life and it's hard to even get up each day when you know they won't be there beside you ....but you will.....Know that she is still with you every step of the way as you hold her safely in your heart and cherished memories...You will find your strength in each passing day to keep moving forward for yourself and your child. You will find comfort in reading others stories and seeing how far some have come from where they began. Everyone here shares a common thread of deep sorrow and loss of their beloved and are in all stages of the grief process so they understand and care about what your feeling. Reach out when you need some comfort or a place to vent and you'll find what you need to get you through a day at a time.....I hope you find some comfort and peace tonight in knowing others care and relate to what your feeling....stay safe and take care of you.

Hi Willowbreeze, i understand what you saying and my mind needs reassurance that she will be there besides me. Its a huge loss for me. She was my very life. I cry hard everyday and its super painful. I wonder why god plays games like this as i used to believe god never plays dice ? Whats the deeper meaning behind it ? Loosing your loved ones makes you feel devastated and alone. My heart aches for her and its hard to get onto the road.

I lost my wife last August of 2016 unexpectantly. I left for work that morning and five hours later returned to find her gone. She passed in her sleep. There was no indication anything was wrong. It is extremely hard and the pain is intense. After a year I can promise you this, it will get better. The pain will be there but the intensity is greatly lessened. Main thing don't push yourself. Some will try and tell you ,you need to move on and try to get over it. This isn't something you get over, you have to learn how to live with it. Your life has changed now. Just take care of you and your daughter. Do what you need for the both of you. Your all she has now and will need you desperately. But at the same time don't forget to take of you to. Do what ever you have to, to get thru this. Reach out to those who have gone thru this it truly helps. The loss is different from others. Half of you is gone and you feel less than whole. This will get better also. Just be patient with yourself. Don't hurry. Take it a day at a time don't worry about tomorrow.
Take care.
Peace, Tim

Hi Tim, appreciate your thoughts and prayers. I cry out loudly, i cry out hard. Its so painful. Cant sleep and cant be awake either. It tears through the heart. It seems full of me is gone. Its so painful to the core. Need to see god in order to move on.

Can't imagine, despite losing my wife unexpectedly. DO feel the pain, and wish you the best. She'll always be with you, and you have extra reason to keep her close for your daughter. I hope you can focus on helping your daughter get along, sharing tears but not concentrating too much on it when she's around. I'm just one guy, but I think us men have a harder time with feelings that stay close to the surface. "Strong man" image doesn't help, expected to hold it all in leaves little outlet.
Yes, praying for you to find peace as you keep your family together. Enjoy your daughter, Dad's going to learn more about girlie things than ever expected!

Im Laurie. I lost my husband this spring, at age of 34. As time passes you somehow find your once again a functioning person. I have no idea how/when/why but one day i stopped and looked around and noticed that somehow i kept going. You found a great support network here.

Hi Sailor, may god give us strength to overcome this irreplaceable loss. I cant believe she slipped out of my life. Its really bad for me at the moment and am trying to make sense of everything that has just happened. I do feel other people pain aswell and dont know how to react. I understand strong man image doesnt help and i cry, cry and cry. Its painful for us. Life needs to be beautiful again.

I'm sorry your wife passed away. Just take one hr at a time. Also remember to take care of yourself. Feel free to vent, scream, cry, and talk about anything. We're all here just trying to grieve and feel as though we are not alone. Much love and hugs carla

I just cried out my hearts this evening. Feeling a bit lighter. Pain is immense. Reading books on death and transformation. Getting some peace from there.

I'm so very sorry for your loss and your daughter's loss. She must be confused with her mom gone, but I feel the strength you have to be her strength. The tears are important at a time like this. Let them flow. Your wife watches over you both and as the reality comes you will know when she's there. Our children were adults when there dad left this world and I'm thankful for that. It takes time to feel the thankfulness when all you want is them here. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Sharon

My husband also died when our youngest was small (almost 7) 1 1/2 years ago. Things that weirdly made it easier were: a) he had been hospitalised for almost 6 months prior (he had been hit by a car & just wasn't able to pull through), b) while he was hospitalised we had changed apartments, so reminders of him weren't around every corner, c) having to take care of our smallest child & helping him recover (they absolutely ADORED each other) forced me to keep myself from getting depressed and d) all of the stupid legal issues with the bank, suing the driver of the car that hit him distracted me.
Good luck getting through your grieving process.

I'm so sorry for your loss, you called out here, in your need. You have taken a first step. It is devastating to lose your wife, and trying to cope with the confusion your little daughter must be feeling. Doing the next thing; is about all you can do. Tears are your friend, they really relieve the turmoil of emotions. It's ok, to let your little daughter see you cry, she will watch you gain more strength as days go by.. Keep sharing, and venting, here, We are here to support and encourage you. Take care of yourself, its not an easy journey.
Love and hugs for you and little daughter......Sandra