Ever since Kurt's passing I find that I have no interest in food. Halfway through the day it occurs to me that I should eat something so I'll put together a peanut butter sandwich or a bowl of oatmeal and pick away for hours, never completely finishing anything in front of me. I try to make it a point to drink at least one Ensure type nutritional shake a day, but some days I won't even remember to do that.
Up until last month I enjoyed cooking and sharing meals that helped Kurt regain some of his lost weight and unavoidably gained a little weight myself. Those extra pounds are gone now but many more have left and if I keep this up even more will be leaving. My Widow's Diet has me wondering if I'll be able to eat again before I fade away to nothing. Any suggestions on how I can stimulate my appetite would be most welcome.
I cant seem to get started on things i have to do (like taxes, cleaning out the closet, getting my son's old car fixed to selll). Everything overwhelms me. My husband has been gone three years. I still miss him terribly.
I am new to this group. I lost my husband in February 2018 and I am so lost, sad, broken, lonely, etc. This site was recommended to me.