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Another fatal blow

wendimac
wendimac
I haven't posted in awhile. I had just got through the 1 year mark of losing my husband, and yesterday, my son went into Cardiac arrest and lost his life. It is starting to sink in now, and I really don't know how I will get through this one.
staygolden3
staygolden3
Wendi.....I'm so so sorry! I've often wondered how you have been. I know the close relationship that you had w your son. Please accept my condolences and know that my thoughts are w you.
Always remember that everyone here cares about you.
Again, my deepest sympathy
Darcie
junlu
junlu
Wendy, please accept our deepest condolence, we are here for you.
Love going your way
deremusl
deremusl
Oh, Wendy, there are no words......just know we're all here for you.
~ Linda
handg
handg
I am so sorry for your lost! I cannot even begin to understand the pain you must be feeling!
lucies
lucies
So very very sorry for your losses, both of them. There are no words that will make you feel better. But remember how supported you are by this group
Lots of Love, compassion, and hugs
Lucie
regwin
regwin
Wendi, I'm So Sorry. My thoughts and Prayers are with you. Love, Dolores
ptorres
ptorres
Wendy so very very sorry. Life can be cruel. Sending prayers to you and your family.
missinghim1985
missinghim1985
I have no words. I am so sorry to hear this, sending lots of hugs and lots of prayers.
carrie415
carrie415
Wendi,,,so so sorry for your lossI and all of us will keep praying for you. Please keep coming here so we can comfort you..Hugs to you.
sandeestttn
sandeestttn
I am so sorry for your loses. Both.... I can't even imagine the pain you are in. My heart breaks for you. Sandee
hiskim
hiskim
Wendi, I know I don't have the correct words of comfort but I'll carry you in my heart, and pray for you. Hugs and love, Kim
billskath
billskath
A hug is being sent your way for strength! All of us are thinking of you...:(
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
All I can say is my condolences for such a devastating loss. May the peace of God wash over you. hugs
Community Leadercliffskat
cliffskat
I am shocked and saddened by your loss - do you have anyone there to lean on? We're here for you, but I hope you are getting some kind of support there, too. If it gets to be more than you can handle - and frankly it would be normal for it to be just too damned much - please call your doctor - don't hesitate to reach out and get whatever help is available.

If I could, I would wrap you up in a big hug and we'd cry together. I know that's not much, but I wish I could do at least that.

Much Love and Big Hugs,
Martha
metwodogs
metwodogs
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs.
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