Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
my wife, Rebecca, called out to me because she was in pain. 48 hours ago the doctors told me she would probably not survive the day. 38 hours ago she died after our daughters and I made the decision to remove life support. 18 hours ago I was at the mortuary making plans.
When does the nightmare end?
When does the nightmare end?
There are no words in the English language to alleviate the pain your are going thru right now. My nightmare only took a break when I slept. Which is backwards. But that's what it feels like that you wake up to a nightmare and sleep to get away from it. But you are not alone in this. There are others going thru it with you. It helped me to spend as much time as I could reading posts here and sharing what others were dealing with also which was the same as me. It actually helps to know everyone goes thru this at one time or another.
I am sorry for the pain you are having to go thru right now. It is overwhelming. Take care of yourself.
Peace, Tim