Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
There are moments in life when you wish you could bring someone down from heaven...and spend the day with them just one more time, kiss them goodbye or hear their voice again.
It will be 12 weeks at 4:53pm that the love of my life , my soul mate, the only man I ever dated, best friend since I was 18 and the best husband and father , grandfather and great-grandfather left this world to be in peace and out of pain after only 11 days of illness..
I miss him so much.. My older sister told me the other night to stop all the crying and feeling sorry for myself and get on with my life.. I was so hurt by her words.. I came back and said I'm not feeling sorry for myself I'm lonely and I miss him..
She almost lost her husband in Feb of this year and I also told her that know one knows what it's like till they go through it themselves.. I know know I will never try and talk about my feelings with her. at all.. She told me I'm hurting my two kids by always crying.. such hurtful words.. I told my daughter this and she said the doctor told her to cry and to tell me to cry all I need to it's better out than in...
I know everyone here knows what I'm going through and I'm so thankful to a good girlfriend of mine who found this place for me..
It will be 12 weeks at 4:53pm that the love of my life , my soul mate, the only man I ever dated, best friend since I was 18 and the best husband and father , grandfather and great-grandfather left this world to be in peace and out of pain after only 11 days of illness..
I miss him so much.. My older sister told me the other night to stop all the crying and feeling sorry for myself and get on with my life.. I was so hurt by her words.. I came back and said I'm not feeling sorry for myself I'm lonely and I miss him..
She almost lost her husband in Feb of this year and I also told her that know one knows what it's like till they go through it themselves.. I know know I will never try and talk about my feelings with her. at all.. She told me I'm hurting my two kids by always crying.. such hurtful words.. I told my daughter this and she said the doctor told her to cry and to tell me to cry all I need to it's better out than in...
I know everyone here knows what I'm going through and I'm so thankful to a good girlfriend of mine who found this place for me..
Hugs,
Cie
I knew I come here to those who truly understand.. All my friends understand and right now I just don't understand my sister.. I've been thinking about it and I'm thinking she came so close to losing her husband of 42 years in Feb.. He had Cardiac Arrest and they brought him back he was unconcious for almost two weeks in the ICU and I believe this happening so suddenly to Ken and they didn't fix him that she is scared of what might have been.. She doesn't want to think it could be her. This is so out of her charactor she raised me for the most part as our mother worked 6 days a week full time.. I'm baffled.. I do know I will try and control my emotions around and now speak much to her about Ken.. sad .. I talked today and the phone to a friend in Edmonton and I did fill up a few times but I controlled my crying so I know I can do it..
My kids and grandkids are wonderful.. My 5 year old Grandson asked his Mum why I was crying the one day and she said Because Gramma misses Poppa.. He came over and hugged me and said It's okay Gramma Poppa loved you and I miss him ... made me cry more..
Again thank you all.