Urinary Incontinence Support Group
Urinary incontinence is the involuntary excretion of urine from one's body. It is often temporary, and it almost always results from an underlying medical condition. Stress, functional, and urge incontinence are the most common forms. Share with other support group members and learn from their stories and experiences.

So It got me thinking. This is not a male, or female problem. It works in both directions. Women deal with this too. Light leakage, pads, and a bikini aren’t conducive with each other.
You right , having any degree of incontinence is an issue when it comes to enjoying the beach and pools. I finally found a product that works very well for me, it is called the simplicity collection system. However, the system is now being referred to as High and Dry. When I found the product on line, I felt it would be great not only for everyday use, but also for the pool. And I was correct. It is a collection bag that is directly connected to an external condom type catheter that you wear in your pouch. If your swim shorts have an inner brief liner of any sorts that is great for holding an supporting the bag. If not, you can wear a jock to hold it. I have worn it many times now for the pool and hot tub and it works very well. I understand from the owners of the company, many divers use it under their wet suits. Of course it is designed for everyday use , having it work for water activities is a bonus. A great alternative in everyday incontinence management. Very easy to empty the bag at a urinal in a public restroom, without being noticed. If you want any more information, feel free to send me a message and I will guide you through the process of getting off to the right start especially if you are not accustomed to using an external catheter.. This is truly a great alternative when you do not want to use any type of disposable. If you go on line you may still be able to watch a video on the system.
Gerald
Sorry for late reply, we went away and the country we were in didn’t let me have access to Daily Strength so wasn’t able to respond. But, hopefully better late than never, here is a link to the swim shorts I use.
https://www.kesvir.co.uk/
It’s very important that they fit correctly so if you order make sure you get the right size. As I mentioned before, the waterproof pant holds all the water in which takes some getting used to. I wear a swim pull-up inside the shorts which protects me before going in the water but also makes any nasty issues easier to clean after as well. Just google ‘Swimmates disposable diaper’ and you’ll see the ones I mean.
Hope this helps.