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Recently unemployed or frustrated with the job search? Unemployment can affect more than just the bank account - it has a negative effect on motivation and self-esteem, even sense of identity. This community addresses the challenges associated with unemployment and how to cope.

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Booch94
Booch94

im 23 years old and i have been out of work for 6 months my girlfriend does and make money but i just dont have no motivation to do anything i dont wanna be like this i wanna work i wanna make money i wanna help her out but i just don't know how to pump myself up to be better and go out and do it . i have dreams and goals i talk about them all time but i dont know how to go after them with faith im losing faith in myself.

bonusjack
bonusjack
I'm sorry you are having difficulty. Staying motivated is not easy. Perhaps you could use a life coach or accountability partner

You might also be depressed. See a doctor in order to rule out possible physical health issues.

Set daily goals, such as making at least job application. Don't beat yourself up. It doesn't help.
Arianwen
Arianwen
I would agree with jack - short-term goals and seeing a professional. However, if you wait until you feel motivated, you will never get anything done! Motivation comes from seeing results, and in order to see results you have to do something. That's why it's so important to set daily/weekly goals, and write them down! Don't just have them in your head - write them down and ask your girlfriend to hold you accountable.

My default response to most things was "I can't be bothered", so I didn't, and nothing gone done. I adopted this 'opposite action' strategy and changed my response to "I can't be bothered, but I'm going to do it anyway." It's not easy, but don't wait for motivation as it will never come!
getjobs
getjobs
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Best,


Philip
getjobs
getjobs
Hi there,

I just came across this opportunity at Crayon that made me think of you. They're looking for a Sales Executive to join their team in Boston, MA. Also, if you apply and get hired through ReferralMob, you'll get a $500 signing bonus.

You can view the position details here: https://link.referralmob.com/6HjGR4KaKK


Best,


Philip
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