My best friend is in a relationship with an MtF....she's not on the site, but I know she'd be willing to talk to you if you wanted. There are some other people here on the site that are partners, or even married. And I'm sure they'd be very happy to talk to you too.

I am with a mtf. We have been in a relationship working on 3 yrs. We have a four month old baby and things have become a little difficult. Not only does my sexuality confuse me but so does hers. I know one really doesn't have to do with the other but what to u do when the things u enjoy seem like a chore to her?

I have been with my spouse for nearly 30 years and she just confided she was transgender in October of last year. She is MTF, and we are just starting HRT. As a matter of fact, the first big appt is tomorrow. Everyday is brand new, so I don't know how much advice I can give, but you can contact me any time. I am not having such a hard time with the sexuality, but the new wardrobe! OMG!

dyke,

I am not a partner of a tg but I transitioned a long time ago, so if you need answers or help to what your partner is going through, drop me a line.

Wolf

Thanks guys :-) it means a lot to know there's somebody here to talk to if I need to *HUGS* xx

I boyfriend is an FtM, and I am currently exploring my gender identity, so I know all about what it's like to negotiate relationships with trans individuals. He and I have only been together a year, but I can still talk if you want support.

I am a FtM and my girlfriend is terrified of males. She is also a lesbian. I'm not sure what advce I can offer you, but she could probably help. Mesage me if you want to and I will see if she can help. -[

My partner has just confided that he is transgender and identifies as a woman. We have been together 9 years,married nearly 4 years and have 2 small children together. I had no idea until he told me recently. (Sorry if using the wrong pronouns but is all very new to me and still trying to get my head around it all) he has started yet but doesn't know if he will ever fully transition or not but we are just taking each day at a time and some days are easier than others. No one else knows yet and I would love to get to know other people who have been through or are going through similar x

Hi I'm still trying to cope with the fact my partner is mtf I was told 18 months ago suspected nothing and we've been together for 27 years I'm trying to take 1 day at a time but deep down I still wish this wasn't happening because I know that after he has had surgery its over I cannot stay with him it just doesn't feel right for me and its heartbreaking the thought of never being with him again