First, they are hard to find; 2nd they are hard to keep. My longest PCA came unraveled and threw a hissy fit & quit today w/no notice. I know the state of Massachusetts pays them peanuts, but it's still better than McDonald's or Walgreen's. Most of them, female or male, have a half-life of 3 months at which point they think they're better than the job, wanting more money (although they are paid by the STATE). Is anybody else having nightmares w/ helpers that can't wait to get to the television, your food, their cel phones, and have to be reminded of the stupidest, smallest things all the time. Am I alone?
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