You need to take care of yourself or you won't be able
to take care of your husband. Can you get help from relative, friend,
professional? Make some time for something calming each day.
Music, yoga, meditation, etc. Write your feelings in a journal. It
would be good if you could see a therapist also.

Thank you! I do meditate daily and our son helps out 2 times a week with taking him to pt but still wish I had more me time, problem is he keeps saying he can drive and wants to go out to job sites he's a contractor I'm sure he is feeling depressed and anxious but truth is he has a hard time walking with his quad cane without getting caught on things...I'm anxious all the time....maybe a therapist could come to me...lol

Hello my name is Sandra, I too am in a similar cituation. My husbands still in a Subacute hospital, he ca only move his eyes. Hes on respirator and has trache. A piece if me dies when they duction him. Yet he still fights. I was mad at him too because he refused to go to emergency room earlier.
But Now I try to focus energy on how to better the cituation. Easy for me to say.
But I too am walking in your shoes. Take care of yourself . Pray to God for he is the way. . Everything is in Gods hands.
God be with you. Sandra

I'm so sorry to hear your circumstances Sandra! My heart goes out to you and feel horrible for complaining since mine is better. My husband couldn't talk and he's right side was completely paralyzed and now he's able to talk with a slight slurr and walk with a cane, he still has no real use oh he's right hand and arm but there is a little movement. This is after 4-1/2 months since his stroke. Be strong and have hope miracles do happen. I will keep you both in my prayers

Thank you for showing compassion for me. To tell the truth. The struggle is Real for each and everyone of us in thus support group. You and everyone in this support group has alltge right in this world to complain. Please dont apologize my friend. It is what it is. My Heart goes out to you and your Family too. I will pray for you too. Your struggle us also my struggle. I know everyday I rise to face what tge new day brings. Your husband Is very lucky to have an Angel like you to watch over him. Know that God us watching. Keep the Faith. Sometimes it seems like your not gonna get tgrough thus, Then God shows you a wayto better your cituation. May God give you strength and watch over you through all of your trialsand turbulations.
Take care lil Angel, we have morework to do tommorrow,
Sandra

Have a Beautiful Day ...
Abby24

Thank you Sandra, you are a very wise person...and your faith seems unshakable...your husband is blessed to have you by his inside....I'm praying for all of us in this group also...I pray you are having a good day, much love

Hi Abby 24,
Thank you so much for the lovely words and prayers. I hope your having a good day. To relax I sometimes watch a good movie. Sometimes I wstch on youtube the Voice Best Auditions. Some people have the gift of a Beautiful voice. I KNOW I DONT. I woyld Clear the Room. Maybe you do. Lol

Hi Abby 24

Hi, how are you today? How is your husband?

Hi Abby24, Thanjs for asking. Hes the same In subacute with Leukemia hes always running fevers. Its hard for ne to go see him dometimes. But I have too. I hope your doing better. You have to do something Fun for yourself. Go somewhere with a friend to see a movie alunch date. Just to taje a Break from Reality my friend. With God and that I can make it tgrough tge day. One day at a time. Keep in touch . Stay the PATH my dear friend. Hugs ... Sandra♥️

Ps Abby24 You are A Special Lady too. God Bless. I live in San diego, westher is pretty cold over here. Yikes lol

Hi Sandra! Glad to hear back from you! I'm sorry about your husband it must be so hard, you are truly an inspiration, just to think what you must be going through and you have the heart and time to reach out to me!!! I will continue to pray for you and your husband...be strong, God does not give us more than we can handle!! I'm in miami, not cold...getting hotter everyday...humidity still hasn't kicked in though..that's when it really gets unbearable. Today is my moms 80th birthday celebration so looking forward to being with my parents and adult children ...my husband will also come along he's walking with a cane is getting better everyday

Hi Abby 24, Hello from San Duego, Ca, Im glad your husband is doing better better. Looks like things are looking up for you thank god.
Happy birthday to your sweet mom. May god bless her with good health, happy
memmories and peace of mind for years to come. Glad your hubby went. Glad your getting out of house. You get to pend time with kids and family. I went to Nephews Burthday at lil sisters house. Its always fun to get together. See everyone because tommorrow is not oromised to anyone. Its funny how we takeut fir granted that we will see one anothe re. Enjoy the Kodack momments. Take pictures. Its the memmories in iur hearts that keeps our Loved ones alive they are never really gone for me. God bless you and your Beautiful Family.
Much love my friend

Hi Sandra, glad to hear you had time with family too! I have a little sister too...and nephews and niece from her..I love spending time with them also, they live in Tampa 5 hrs nw from us, we get to see them for Easter, looking forward to it! How is your husband?