Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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Kricket1
Kricket1

So im new too. Figuring out my next moves and im sort of lost and confused. Mom and dad got divorced a couple of yrs ago and split me and my brother. Im with my mom. Shes got a new boyfriend and she wants me out next year. Kind of unsure what im gonna do but I want out. I bury myself in school activities so im not home when he's up. Just really confused and worried.

LuckyEmpath
LuckyEmpath
Welcome to the group. I am sorry for all you have been through and appear to still be going through.

Lots of caring, understanding and supportive people here. Please feel free to share as much or as little as you feel comfortable.

I am assuming you are in high school....will you be able to go to college?
donnawanda
donnawanda
Welcome. It sounds like you're in a tough spot. You will find lots of support and understanding here.
Kricket1
Kricket1
Im kinda in both at the same time. Duel enrollment since the 10th grade. Ill graduate with my AA but I dont think ill be able to go to college until im on my feel. Ive been saving from dog sitting and babysitting. Kinda want a real job. Im thinking of getting a camper which is pritty much all I would be able to afford. My aunt in Florida told me last month I could come home with her but i would feel awkward.
Kricket1
Kricket1
I would love to work for the CDC on day. Biological hazards are fascinating. So small but so dangerous.
Kricket1
Kricket1
Pardon my typos. On a phone.
Searchlight
Searchlight
I've had nightmares about an apocalyptic virus like Ebola. Far more threatening than a nuclear Armageddon. I hope you get on it soon!

I definitely think you should live with your aunt if you can. Going on your own might totally distract you from college and you might never get back to it. Just my 2 cents.
hopefulmama
hopefulmama
I lived with my grandma after graduation because my parents moved out of state and I did not want to go.It was great,made me learn how to grow up and still have the security of my grandma.I too felt awkward but I will cherish that time of my life forever.maybe you being there will actually be for her!Just help out with housework and so forth and i guarantee you will find a new adult relationship with your aunt,
Kricket1
Kricket1
Thanks for the insight hopefulmama. I didn't think about it that way. I may consider it for when I graduate. I would be able to attend college in Florida if it worked out. Not sure how close she is to major universities. Might be worth looking into more.
sleepyowl84
sleepyowl84
what's going on when your mom's bf is up?
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