Who really cares if men are on here,,,,,,,,,,I dont know, Who wants to put up with grumpy ole men enough in the real world lol

I feel like I'm in a CHICK/FLICK!!
Grew up w/bunch of brothers ...
Guess I just like diversity!
Ain't nuttin wrong wid dat!
Yu got somethin against men?

Feel like I'm talkin to myself - "Oh self........

Yes dead?... Oh I think I might have noticed one of those rare thangs yu were tawkin aboot! I think it began w/name RONsumthin ~ Is it possible one has unwwittingly wandered in ? Think HE has an opinion? NAW ... can't happen here ...No one else has ever shown up here!

Now, dead Did yu like that comment? dead Are YU there! I'm tawkin tu yu !!

Hi Dead ~ Just wanted to say You lookin lovely tonight Honey ...

I just LOVE me. I am talkin to myself again ... Must not be naybody OUT there!

Here I am!

Is it REAL or am I only dreaming?? Me thinks me heard ...Could it really be... One WHO is not afraid to step up to the plate ....

A MAN FROM MAINE!!!

LOL! dead, I love reading your posts!!
yesterday

Yeh ~ Well it's TOO bad we only got one REAL MAN in this group that's not afraid to stand up and be counted!!

What happened to the rest of you guys??

So WHERE'S Ron and/or Gene?? Are there any OTHER DS Brothers in this Group? WHAT is this too trivial for you to reply to?

Thanks yesterday ~ I guess I am not just talking to myself afterall...

bobinmaine has the BIGGER BALLS than anyother so called M-A-N in this support group ~ Thanx Bob!!

I agree, sometimes it is nice to just be with a guy. It doesn't have to be sexual it is just nice to have a guys presence and point of view.

I have been asked by my kids if I would ever marry again - I told them not unless I could find a man who likes to pull weeds and sleep in the spare bedroom. I get all the "male" input I can handle from my son-in-law and grand sons.

LoL I like the comments and different points of views men have.. they are most of them anyhow some not. But just like some women to, I find men very intellectually ,YES that's right intellectually wonderfully elating. to talk to.. . They most of them? are just a straight at right to the point.. attitude. I like that.. I enjoy talking to men.. too. Its the same really to me.. I love to communicate.. very interesting MEN don't you all think?

LoL I like the comments and different points of views men have.. they are most of them anyhow some not. But just like some women to, I find men very intellectually ,YES that's right intellectually wonderfully elating. to talk to.. . They most of them? are just a straight at right to the point.. attitude. I like that.. I enjoy talking to men.. too. Its the same really to me.. I love to communicate.. very interesting MEN don't you all think?

It appears to be a most fortuitous day to have chanced upon this lovely group
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"Good day notdeadye...

I look forward to making your acquaintance.I'm off just now to read a few posts.

I'm guessing that few men come to this particular post because of the estrogen/progesterone fumes.

But given we're all seniors maybe not. LOL

I'm guessing the the real reason is that men, as was highlighted by one of the posters, think differently (Mar - Venus stuff) and although some may not believe it, the book, for me, really struck home.

There are very few men I know that are looking for a woman friend. We have enough friends (guys) in our lives without those (women) complications.

We are interested in women but NOT as friends. I don't care what men may say to their female "friends" they are lying.

They may feel sorry for you, be attracted to you or your sister or some other friend,want you (in the biblical sense) but they DON'T want you as a FRIEND (I will add a caveat - if he's gay bets are off. If he is he will probably be the best friend you've ever had or are likely to ever have in your whole life).

One of the biggest problems I see in relationships is that men and women don't actually know how to 'hear' what each other are saying.

Men interpret the words women utter within a male context and vis-a-versa. So there is massive opportunities for misinterpretation and along with that can go anguish, pain, heartache, ego smashing, retaliation, revenge, hate, etc., etc., etc.

Until you learn how the other gender thinks and talks there will always be serious issues.

Example: A guy and his girlfriend go for a walk down Main Street and the girl looks into a shop window and sees something she really likes and mentions it to the guy.

GUY'S MENTAL PROCESSES: She wants that and she wants me to buy it for her. Doesn't she know that I've just had to pay for the mortgage and the auto got smashed last week and it's in the shop for repairs and I'll have to pay for that as well. Why is she always just thinking about herself and always asking he to buy her stuff? Why can't I ever satisfy her needs. She's making me feel useless and a failure. BITCH!!!

WOMAN'S MENTAL PROCESSES: I really like the look of that. I'd like to let Jack know so that he gets to understand my tastes. I don't want him to buy it for me just to let him know. Maybe we could have a talk about it and other stuff in the window - that would be fun. I'd like the intimacy that we could develop by walking around and looking at beautiful bit and pieces in the windows and JUST TALKING.

This is one of the problems of Mars and Venus. Only 1 of hundreds.

Chin up. It can get good if you can get a guy to read, think and understand how women think and talk. Could save a million relationships. Good luck trying if he's a jock.