Self-Injury Support Group
Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.
the one thing that worries me
about these pages is
action reaction
people becaome a thing called a cutter
and thats a bad lable
its like ,,,whats worng with you.....
I cut
ok we will treat you as a cutter
what happend to why?
why are you like this ?
what is the under lyeing problem?
ive known cutters and burners
.i knew a girl who was 20
she was a mess arms were so scared
she seemed strong ...
people said yes she is a cutter
and they worried about the marks
i talked to her one night
and she told me how her drunken father would come in every night and beat her up
see its not what she was doing to her self
its what was happening to her
people see the mess you make of your self and dont even
see past that
and that is where every thing falls
you are seen as a cutter and thats all
there is a reason people get like this
but is missed
this site needs to talk about why
more than
.how bad you need to cut..
the problem needs fixing at the poit it strated from
or the lable cutter is all we are.
is help page needs to expand on the reall storys of the people who have got to this point
and not the symptoms
x
about these pages is
action reaction
people becaome a thing called a cutter
and thats a bad lable
its like ,,,whats worng with you.....
I cut
ok we will treat you as a cutter
what happend to why?
why are you like this ?
what is the under lyeing problem?
ive known cutters and burners
.i knew a girl who was 20
she was a mess arms were so scared
she seemed strong ...
people said yes she is a cutter
and they worried about the marks
i talked to her one night
and she told me how her drunken father would come in every night and beat her up
see its not what she was doing to her self
its what was happening to her
people see the mess you make of your self and dont even
see past that
and that is where every thing falls
you are seen as a cutter and thats all
there is a reason people get like this
but is missed
this site needs to talk about why
more than
.how bad you need to cut..
the problem needs fixing at the poit it strated from
or the lable cutter is all we are.
is help page needs to expand on the reall storys of the people who have got to this point
and not the symptoms
x
Thank you for this post. thank you so much
if you cant post it here where else ?
you are free here
there are lots of groups here
that deal with all sorts of things
what may seem a small story to people
is what takes over someones life
.im no saint on these sites
the places i type i only join for a short time i normaly would never talk here
this is like me on the surface of a lake
i have problems coping with people
a lot of the time i just seem angery or lost
some times i talk
some times i wont for ages
i just hate to see lables that make me act only one way its an easy trap to say im a cutter
its a hell of a lot easyer to say than
a reason like abuse or something
i fell in to it my self
cutting is a reaction to an hidden emotional storm inside
some times its like even the reason got lost !and you are just this thing that now acts this way...
and it hard to find the way back out
because its so unclear
i think im talking to much
oops
I cut...I started cutting instead of attacking my attacker. I felt like I was the one who deserved what was happening. and even now happyness isn't comfortable. now I'm the one saying to much sorry....