Self-Injury Support Group
Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.

Why you would stay with someone who does nothing but use and hurt you. You don't need this person in your life and he definitely does not deserve any love you give him.
All he's doing is dragging you down, making you feel bad about yourself and making you want to harm yourself. So please use your self-respect and kick this loser to the curb. Then work on you and your self-respect and self-care and take time to take care of yourself.
I know it's time to let go and I struggle with not putting my foot down and trying to move forward. No one deserves all the mental abuse i have gone through in this "relationship". I think I need to find support groups to just get the encouragement from others to keep going and trying to better myself.
If you have any suggestions on where to look or what to read that could be helpful as well.
Thank you for replying and making me feel like I can do better!