Okay, so a little background-- my dday of an EA affair was 01/02/12-- which that night turned it a PA, and my husband has been having the affair ever since-- and pretty much sleeps there every night, although hasn't moved any of our stuff, still tells me he is conflicted, loves me, is in love with me, can never live without me, misses me, all that blah. I know, you know I believe him, but also actions don't match words-- but once OW is at work, he runs to me. Anyway, OW Is off yesterday and today. So I told myself since its been 3 months, no more emails at all (normally I email him at least once during the night about how I am doing and feeling- and he has saved every single one of those emails). Anyway, so no email yesterday- no contact at all. At 6:50 this morning he calls me, and says I didn't hear from you all day-- (well crap I knew you were with her what do you expect) and I miss you and I love you and cannot wait to see you-- I am going to come see you at work in about an hour to come see you. So a 40 minute phone call and a 10 minute meeting- where he held my hand and told me all the things he always does. Said he really would like me to email him so he knows I am okay, but what does he expect? So obviously no emailing right? Let him pursue me.. I think I should give him a taste of life with this OW.. and obviously he is thinking about me or missing me... so any thoughts?? Is this perhaps me starting a 180 and he is noticing that he may not be able to have his cake and eat it too for much longer? I don't plan on hearing from him or even contacting him for the rest of the day-- she is off again today. I don't need restrictions-- I am the wife. So anyway.. he is supposed to be at the house tomorrow after work until around 8... so I know I will run into him then..