Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
He and I were together for months. It was going great. The only flaw was that he and I both have mental health problems; his is schizophrenia, multiple personalities, anxiety, and depression. Mine is only depression and anxiety.
He and I had sex that day at his house. Everything was fine, I was just tired so I fell asleep after we had sex. Next thing I new, I was awake but my eyes were still closed. He was on top of me and inside me. I just let it play out because I could tell he was almost finished and I was so scared of him getting mad at himself or me if I called him out on it.
Something notable is that I fell asleep without any pants or underwear on so obviously, it was easy to do.
Is it my fault? The one person I told the full story to said it was my fault but everyone else says no when they dont know the full story and details. Its been half a year since it has happened and I still cry everytime I think about it and get very anxious when a character off of a movie or show is getting raped or has any atributes similar to his.
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Middy is off for a bit so if anyone needs a CL please just give me a shoutSending a big hug...xo
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I was sexually assaulted as a kid. I find it hard to accept that another person's actions caused me so much harm. He made bad choices and now I am paying the price. Stupid PTSD!
And NOT YOUR FAULT!!
I’m not yelling, please don’t take it that way... I’m emphasizing the most important part.. this is not your fault...
Does he have a therapist?? Or you?? If not, you need to find one..
I’m so sorry about everything... the friends who said this wasn’t your fault, are right.. it’s never the victims fault to be attacked...
You are among folks who understand.. we’re here if you want to talk, ask questions, vent, or just .... whatever.
You’re not alone in this, we do understand..
Notalone00
My father used to sexually abuse me , in my sleep, as a child. If I woke up to someone having sex with my unconscious body, I would come unglued! An unconscious person is not capable of giving consent, unless you previously gave him permission to fuck you unconscious body, this is rape. And it does not sound like it is something you consented to.
Obviously the violation was traumatic for you, otherwise you would not be feeling the emotions that you are feeling. You should consider contacting a rape crisis center; they can offer help.