I'm so sorry you experienced this. It happened to me as well and it is absolutely terrifying. The choking and suffocating feeling is just so scary. I do believe it is rape and you are NOT overreacting at all. If you ever need to talk we're here for you.

my second rape was like that.....i was forced to do a lot of things and that was one of them.....

I have nightmares about my ex coming back to hurt me emotionally and physically I was coerced me into having sex with him and this happened a year and a half ago. He made me do things including blow job and i didn't have interest in doing so and yet he knew, he knew I wanted to be a virgin and stay that way. I hate myself soo much I let him do it it haunts me to this day I. No longer with him i found someone else who's kind caring respectful and understands if I don't want to have sex or give head he stays back and yet I want to but I'm scared from my previous experience

I’m really glad that you asked this because it has been going through my head and I didn’t even realize it. I’m sorry for piggybacking off your post, but reading all of the comments helped me realize that it is not overreacting and it is not my fault for not biting, kicking, etc.

I'm sorry you've experienced this, as well as the rest of you. I've never had this happen, that I know of. I was drugged and raped years ago, and only remember flashes of the rape. But, thankfully, I don't remember my rapist making me give him head, so I don't think he did. I would consider that rape, also! Definitely!

Yep! I was forced and held down and chocked.

you are definitely not overreacting!! Any time a person says NO, and the person continues or forces them to do something, IT IS RAPE! I have been forced to do this many times, the first two were during rapes. To this day my current husband forces me at times and it is very traumatizing. You can not breathe, you are so fearful!! I feel for you. Don't try to talk yourself into a reason why it happened. It is not on you it is all on the assailant!!