I don't think you're overreacting, not at all. The man who raped me made me do this to him too and it was probably the time I was most scared because I couldn't breathe and I thought I was going to die.

You're not overreacting.
This happened to me when I was younger, it was my bestfriends older brother and and at the time he forced me to do it I had never even held hands with a boy. It really messed me up for awhile and still affects me to this day.

Wen i was rapped... the guy that raped me made me do this 2 him and it was awful... to this day i still refuse 2 give my b/f head coz i get scared he's gonna force himself on me. I'm so sorry that this happened to you, if you need to talk... dnt hesitate to message me. xx

you are ot alone i have been forced into it many times by my ex, he made me do a lot of things, hes one of the guys that raped me, but to me that was always the worst because I couldn't breathe

I agree with the others... you're not over-reacting. I thought the same thing about myself for a long time. But it is classified as rape for a very good reason and it is a violent trauma experience. It is a crime punishable with prison. You are NOT over-reacting.

And yes, I was forced to do that, too. I think that 'event' affected me possibly worse than being vaginally raped, for a number of reasons. :(

You are definately not over-reacting. It is a crime & you are entitled to your feelings. The guy who raped me raped me vaginally & then forced me to give him oral. It is a horrible experience & everyone reacts in different ways, but that doesn't mean anything. There is no right or wrong feeling to have after something like this. Do I make any sense?

i was forced to give head too. it's been almost two years and i still think about it constantly. now one of my friends is dating the same guy without knowing anything about it and it's bringing everything back. you're not overreacting at all, i promise.

No ay your overreacting , I also had this done to me through out my life and I felt trapped and unable to breathe Here if you want to talk .

I was asked if I had ever done so by the creep who attacked me (he used other words that I won't use here). When I told him no, I thought he might force me to, but he didn't.

I agree, your not over reacting
its one of the mmost frightning things ive gone through, i felt like i couldnt breathe and i really thought i was gonna die.

I agree too! You are not over-reacting! I have been forced too many times to do it, its horrible. I find it hard, even in a loving supportive relationship, to perform oarl sex on my fiance. I have a huge fear of it now...

Unfortunately yes. I try to deny it but one of the men who raped me made me perform oral sex. I bit him a few times but then he tried to hit me and told me how I was to do it correctly. To this day I still cannot give head or even look at a man's penis especially white men. It is horrible. This is a form of sexual abuse, but as far as rape that depends on where you live.

It happened me too several times, and I still have nightmare about it , if you need to talk, message me I would be happy to help you x

I'm sorry you've gone through this. I've been through it too when I was younger and it really is a horrible experience. I remember I couldn't breathe, and I was gagging... it's just such a sickening violation. In my opinion, it is rape, and I don't think you're overreacting at all.

If you ever need to talk, we're all here for you.

No way. A little while ago, I found out my girlfriend had the same thing happen to her when she was 14... she was a virgin!!! Worse still, I know the guy who did it (I went to school with him), we live in a small town, yet there's nothing I can do.
He sent her a message telling her to come for a 'walk' at night.. they walked somewhere alone, and he pushed her head down and held her there... she said no, but he didn't let go until.. Well you get the idea.
He still lives here, and I see him from time to time, it takes all the restraint in my body to not run him over..