Pulmonary Embolism Support Group
By far the most common form of pulmonary embolism is a thromboembolism, which occurs when a blood clot, generally a venous thrombus, becomes dislodged from its site of formation and embolizes to the arterial blood supply of one of the lungs. Symptoms may include difficulty breathing, pain during breathing, and more rarely circulatory instability and death.
For patients who were put on warfarin, they're ofter given the advice to cut out foods with vitamin K, which often results in them eating less salads and other veggies. Hence, weight gain.
Also, I think many times our bodies have a really hard time adjusting after such a shock as clots. It can be hard wrapping our minds around the trauma and I don't think our physical bodies are any different. Loss of appetite could fit right in with that. You might give yourself a little more time to adjust and start getting back to "normal."
I mean, if you're in a situation of getting dangerously underweight, you might check in with your doctor and seek some guidance. Otherwise, I think I might give it another couple of months and see if the dynamic starts to shift.
I think even people who "bounce back" from PEs will be a little behind for 2-3 months. For most of us, based entirely on what I've seen here, recovery tends to stretch out for many months. I mean, you don't feel awful that whole time, but you'll definitely have good days and bad days, with the bade days slowly decreasing.
For me, I took about 11 months to really get past the early stages of recovery. Up until then, getting too much exercise, pushing myself too much, being out in hot/cold/humid weather, breathing cleaning fumes, would all cause problems and I'd have increased pain and exhaustion for a few days. I could usually sleep it off in a day or two but I was exhausted at first.
My PEs were at the end of January in 2010 and I know my last increase of symptoms was on Thanksgiving Day when I went out for a walk in sub-freezing temperatures. Totally exhausted afterwards but sleep cured it.
If there's a way to politely tell your husband to take a chill pill, that might be a good thing. I know my husband got frustrated after a while too and wanted to know if I was always going to be this tired, exhausted person. I didn't know ... and of course a doctor can't guess with any accuracy how long recovery will take. Everyone is different and every clot is different. It takes what it takes and, truthfully, stressing out about it or pushing yourself to get back to "normal" will usually just set you back. This is one recovery where "pushing through it" will just make everything worse.
Hang in there!
Indwen
Audrey
My partner seems to be on the other end of the scale from your husband in that he won't let me do ANYTHING that he deems 'too much' which includes carrying the baby upstairs, cleaning the house too much (can't complain about that one really because it's nice to have someone else do it) or going out walking without him as he's terrified of anything happening.
I don't even think my appetite is really big at the minute but the weight gain is!!