AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!! sorry was reading other posts and just felt a good scream coming on- so thought i'd add it to mine again instead of bashing anyone else... :)

I can understand where your coming from completly. When I was 17 I was diagnosed with Endometriosis and told I wouldn't be able to ahve children. Tehn 2 years ago after my last surgery the doc said fertility wise everything looked great for me to have children. December of last year I got pregnant but miscarried at 6 weeks. This is when the anger taht you have now, had kicked in for me. I had a friend who got pregnant just for the sake of getting pregnant. she liked the attention. I used to scream and cry at times because my frustartion and anger overwhelmed me. Close your eyes, take a deep breath. It will get better! It's hard, I'll admit but when you do get pregnant you knwo that you'll be one of those people that appreciate your pregnancy to this highest extent. If there's anything I can do for you let me know. Sending big hugs to you and hope your days get better.

I am sorry you are going through this right now. You will be in my thoughts!

Don't worry, your time will come and people will resent you too! LOL It always seems hard in our position. I'm sure that pregnant teenager down the block is saying "I wish I couldn't get pregnant, even when I was trying like her". And there are thousands of people that say "I wish I had only been trying for 8 months, rather than 5 years."

Your day will come though, hang in there.

I dont think you can blame people who have abortions as I have in the past, but you dont know why I choose to, you dont know what happend to me at the time. Im luck as im over 20 weeks now

I hope u soon are blessed with a child, people compare me to the mother who plays on "i love raymond" of howim so crazy about everything my angels do. I decided long ago that i would only have children with one man my boys father. We are not together but we both chose to only have children with each other so all our children would have the same blood line etc.. I'm pregnantnow by another man and i did not want this pregnancy, i did all i could to prevent it and was devastated when i found out i was pregnant and if i had any strength to have a abortion i would have. I kept it to myself forever about my pregnancy and to this day hardly know one knows and im over 21 weeks now. I feel like a teen trying to hide ashameful pregnancy. I 29 i have had two other very wanted pregnancies VERY WANTED and never would i have thought i would have a pregnancy i didn't want. Sometimes u have to be in someone else shoes to understand but trust me only last year i would be saying the same things as u, "why would anyone not want their child" abortion is murder etc.... Now i don't feel that at all, children suffer everyday because of a unwanted pregnancy. Children are killed, beaten, molested, not ccared for everyday because of a unwanted pregnancy, if that child is aborted the blame goes on u and that child has passed and is in heaven and God is a forgiving God, know matter how angry he is about what u did he forgives u and he knows u are not perfect and u are only doing what u think is best. So don't be so fast to talk down on people who feel they have no other option but abortion.

I agree with you. It took me 11 yrs to conceive my miracle and it wasn't an easy road by any means. I know the frustration felt when people can just go out and get pg on "accident" and here we are willing to give everything we have and everything we are and still can't get pg no matter what. You can't imagine how many times I still feel the same way as you and I am now 29 weeks pg. When I realize that a post talks about possible abortion because they "made a mistake" I quit reading immediately and move on since I will have nothing nice to say.

I know what you mean. I hear you, and i love my children so much. It is hard to hear, and you just wonder at times.
It takes time sometimes to conceive, and sometimes adoption is easiest. I am pregnant with my second child, and after this one is a bit older a few years we are going to adopt. Because there are so many children out there that need a home. And why not ours?

I said the exact same thing when I had a m/c. I just found out I was pregnant again though, and it was unplanned. I pretty much just gave up bc i swore up and down that i wasn't fertile. i was with my fiance for almost a year before we got pregnant. with my assuming that i couldn't get pregnant, we didn't use any protection. yea it sounds nieve; but i felt that strongly about it. some girls just get pregnant MUCH easier. and while it's not fair, keep trying! you haven't been trying long enough to seek fertility help, so i would try until you reach a year, and then maybe go to a doctor. another thing that i noticed with both of my pregnancies was that as soon as i got being pregnant off of my mind, like i wasn't waiting for it to happen, then boom-positive preg test. this is much easier said then done, but you should try it. I'm sorry for your struggle, but it WILL happen for you! Good Luck!!!!