Hi Lina,

I am so sorry to hear that, i cant even imagine how terrible you feel. I will pray for you during this hard time, and I hope that God will bless you with the child you deserve when the time is right. we cannot control these things and you cannot blame yourself.

Oh Lina..I am so sorry to hear of this. I echo Sabrina's sediments and you will be in my prayers.

I am so so sorry for your loss. Every time I read of another loss it immediately takes me back to that horrible feeling. My heart is breaking for you and I am crying with you. I hope you have the support you need at home to get through this. You will be in my prayers and if you need to talk I am here.

sorry for your loss...your baby is in my prayers...hugs...

I'm so sorry for your loss Lina. Your in my prayers sweetie.

I am so sorry for your loss!!!!!! I wish none of us ever had to face the loss of a baby, at ANY stage! I ache for you. I will be praying for healing for you, and peace through this time. I'm so sorry. :( HUGS

so sorry to hear of your loss may the Lord be with you through this hard time.

Sweetheart I am so sorry to hear this.

I am a mum who has suffered a few losses myself, and I feel for you going through this pain. May God give you the strength and comfort you need. If you ever want to talk my email is ruth86@live.com.au I am sure you probably just want some space right now, but any time you want to go over things or need someone to listen who understands, feel free to email me hun xx

Oh Lina, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I really thought your little one was going to be ok.
I am thinking of you. Be kind to yourself.
Michelle

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Lina I am really sorry! I will be praying for you at this hard time. I have heartache for you and i hope you get the baby you deserve one day.

oh my gosh...that is terrile news...so sorry to hear of it..please take care of yourself at ths time and know that we are all here if you need us..i will be thinking of you..hope to see y back on the board again!

Lina, I am so sorry! Sorry seems such an inadequate word. I've been exactly where you are - going to the doc thinking I would see a baby and finding that our angel had flown. It was the most devastating experience of my life.

I have a couple of things to recommend to you. The first is, GRIEVE. Allow yourself to grieve this loss as you would that of any other loved one. People who have not been through this don't understand how much it hurts. Many will say things that seem insensitive or cruel. They don't mean to be, they just don't get it if it hasn't happened to them.

Another thing you will learn is that it has happened to a lot more people than you think. When I had my two M/Cs I found out that many people I know had been through it - but it was never talked about.

The other thing I would recommend is joining the Miscarriage group here on DS. They were a godsend - ladies who are or have been where you are, so they really understand.

I wish I could hug you and tell you it will be o.k. It will take time, and you will never forget this baby, but God brings peace and healing.

I'm praying for you and crying with you. I'm here if you need to talk, just send me a message.

Love to you and your family.

Bev

I'm so sorry Lina -

the loss of a child is always difficult, especially now when you were just being hopeful and excited for the future. My thoughts are with you!

I agree with what some of the ladies here have said. A MC is a loss. Take your time to grieve. It may help to talk about it to friends and family, and you will be surprised how many people may share theri own stories of loss with you. BevyJo said it perfectly.

One fantastic book I read about reproductive loss is aptly entitled: "Grieving Reproductive Loss", by Kathleen Gray, a fellow Montrealer. It covers all types of reproductive loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, ADOPTION and ABORTION. Yes, the latter two are considered by this registered nurse and grievance counselor as losses, too.

You can get this book on Amazon. Good luck sweetie!