i have a 7 month old little boy and just found out i am pregnant agen i did no play this one and was on birth control i dont no what the big thing is with getting pregnant i love my little boy so much but wish i had waited till i was older it is not all fun and games like u think it is hard work

I think there are enough people being critical and judgemental towards teen parent without other teens doing it. I think what we should be doing is supporting other teens and helping them realize wat a huge responsibilty it is instead of critisizing.
And although I dont agree with young teens actually trying to get pregnant especially at 13, 14 but it does happen. And will keep happening. Nothing anyone can really do about it.
Just pray that everything works out for these young parents and there babies

i wasnt trying to citizize anyone im just speaking what i feel, and yeah i dont agree with that and i know that i cant stop it, but it just kind of upsets me that children want to cut their childhood short, like you only live once
but im not trying to offend anyone here

I know what you mean, look at the post's by PorcelinFake. Crap like that make me want to vomit.

so ur trying to say that.. that makes u better? well sorry to be the one to break it to ya but u aint..not trying to pick a fight but i was sixteen when i got pregnant and am very glad that i get to bring my daughter into this world!

im 16 and just found out im 3 months pregnant and yes most teens are irrasponsible but not all of them i was using condoms and birth control yes you have your own opion but all you seem to be doing is critisinig them let me be there not your responsibiliy!!!1

hey what did i just say?
im not critizing anyone im just speaking my mind,
im not directing it to any person on her individually am i
and cindylee
when did the words im better come out of my mouth once ??????
all i said was i was more mature, and im sure lots of girls are

i really think it has to do with the person not the age. maybe 13-15 is a little ridiculous but you hear people saying "you're missing out on alot of things" i guess having fun and going out and partying. well, not everyone cares about going out all the time. i personally would rather take care of my baby then to go out and party every night. and just because you have a baby doesn't mean you can't still do the things you used to do, you just have to change things a little. i'm very happy i'm pregnant i'll be 18 when he gets here. and i wouldn't change it for anything.

excuse me but i think your being very rude. i am 16 and i am pregnant, it wasnt planned but im happy about it!, its my first child, i am bound to be exited, that is probably why you see people being happy, it doesnt mean they are trying at all. some may be, but some are not. these things happen and if its meant to be its meant to be.

That sounds kind of like the "pot calling the kettle black" because you are sixteen and preggo...and ur happy right??? Yes u were on birth control when u got pregnant, but everyone knows that BC is not 100 effective..only abstinance...so i dont think it was wise to make that statement, when your pretty much in the same predicament...but thats just my opinion = ]

I personally think, yeah there is alot of teeens geting pregnant. BUt its what you make of the situation, if you get your ass into gear and become a really good parent, then thats good, ive seen some of my friends really turn there lives around when having a baby.

Its the irrosonsible parents who jump straight on the benifit and dont care about there kids that give teen mums a bad name.

Im only 18 ive had a few miscarriages and lost my son at 8months pregnant.

I am now ten weeks pregnant and just be granted gaurdenship of my 2 year old god son whom ive had in my care for the last few months. I am still going to univesity and working, and to make things worse, my partner recently passed away in a car accident.

But i try my bbest not to let things get me down, i try my best to always mnake the most of the situation, and althrough this is gonna be hard, im still gonna do it. Cause thats what being respnsible is!!!!

im 16 and im 8 months pregnant when i got pregnant i was on birth control and we used a condom and im very excited to have my baby boy hes not even here yet and me means the world to me. i wasnt excited at first but i made the best of it and now im happy. i do think that girls are haveing sex really young but im not completly inocent soo yea they should be responsible but maybe they are on birth control or they did use a condom it happened to me

I seem to agree with you more and more. I really don't think it's a good idea for someone so young to try and get pg. And I really am getting tired of seeing all these posts..'trying'..why not get a puppy?!
I am not going to be around this board anymore. Getting tired of it. Wishing everyone healthy and happy pregnancies whether planned or not.

I do think it seems to be becoming a trend... Not long ago i heard of a group of young girls that made a pact to all get pregnant together !?!?!?! What the hell is that about?
Not critizing any teen moms becaus ei know some that did an ok job but they all say it, they wish they would have been able to wait.

you can't judge everyone's situation or stereo type by age. I am 30 but was 15 when my first child was born. I married his father at 16 and we are still married, 14 years later. We have four very well behaved, beautiful children and a fifth on the way. I love my family and my life, wouldn't change it for anything although I must admit it is not what I would want for my 15 year old son. Some people are mature enough to grow up and handle being parents, others aren't, it just depends on the individual situation.