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PTSD due to my past relationship

sweettoe
sweettoe

i've meet someone whom i thought i'd share the rest of my life with. I matured and tried to settle, and even planning for my future with him. I've done everything even if  i've spent 5 months away from him but when i came back everything was changed. he has changed. His plans for future has changed. It's gotta be me when i left, but someone took my place when i get back. then i just get onto the process of moving on in just 2 days then poooof! pain was gone. after a year, he's back and all my pain also comes back but it's more than tenths of folds that it came to the point that i need to see a psychologist for counseling. what i've learned? It's better to face your pain now than later because there's no other way of escaping it but to accept.

Aronia
Aronia
I m sorry you are hurting because of this. It is difficult to deal with a broken heart.
Why do you feel it is PTSD?
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I'm sorry that you've been so badly hurt but I'm glad that you're getting help..... Gentle hug....xo
Belle58
Belle58
You say your boyfriend came back and so did your pain. I don't know this is what is. But I have been through this and you saying the pain came back with him. Makes me think you might have Narcissistic abuse syndrome. I am not a therapist I am only a survivor of this type of abuse. I hope maybe you will at least look into it. The pain is unbearable. I just want to help those who might be going through what I have been through.
sweettoe
sweettoe
I stayed with him when I came back like almost everyday, and everyday we've always come to an argument or any little misunderstandings that just easily made him held a hand. Every passing day is also a bruise i could get while I'm around him. I don't know the issue but some of his friends that says he's under the influence of drugs or she got a fight with his third-party, but i don't know. It's juts hard for me to believe after all his promises. I stayed even if it comes to the point that i got wounded for he drags me while I'm in the ground, or he attempted to stabbed himself with a knife but I prevent it from happening, or he throws me anything his hands could reach.
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