Is it possible that she's burnt out from her own life? Maybe talk to her about it?

I think you might be projecting your own feelings onto her which is so easy to do with a therapist. OF course she wants you to move on from the past and move past your self-hate. She wouldn't be a good therapist if she didn't.

The real question is are you ready to move on from your past and your self-hatred? Both things are tough to give up. They become part of who you are without you even knowing it. The question is- do you want to give them up???? I am working on self-loathing myself so I do understand how hard it is :)

Good luck, I found therapy is the hardest right before big change is to come.

I'm wondering if she is "Burned-out" on you or suspecting you are ready for your next healing phase. I think of it as moving on from elementary school to junior high. The elementary teachers were great, but the student is ready for the next phase. In my own psychotherapy, it has been the student who declares the graduation date with the support of my therapist, group members, etc.

I *graduated* to my current therapy maintenance phase around 2k. There is no cure for the Common Me, but my therapy supporters and I mostly agreed that I had acquired enough tools to maintain my condition without pro support. My being in charge enough to declare, "It's Time" is an important part of that. At least. . . That's my operating theory and I'm sticking to it.

Then we get to The Trust Issues. . . I still have an entire drawer of my toolbox dedicated to tools for dealing with those. There is no cure for the Common Me? Trust still don't come easy.