Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
"emotionally unstable personality disorder" seems to me to minimize the seriousness of it, and we'll be trated like just spoil brats.
"Borderline" at least leaves a little mystery.
I'm sorry, but that is my opinion.
But the medical profession has been doing us 'wrong' forever.
Only Marsh L. and a few others has shed some light into it.
Most BPDs were abused as children, now we are the bad guys...
Post-Traumatic Personality Disorder
Emotion Regulation Disorder
I do not want it to be labeled as you mentioned. There's enough stigma around mental illness as it is.
I personally find emotionally unstable personality disorder makes me sound like i am some sort of axe murder and i find it highly offensive when the health care professionals use that term with me. although borderline personality disorder as a name is misleading i would much prefer to be refered to as borderline than emotionally unstable.
I agree with Pokkino, when you hear emotionally unstable...what guy is going to want to take someone like that on? Friggen no one would.
Even the ones who said they didn't looking at their childhoods closely they were, they either had very narcissistc parents or even if the abuse was not obvious it was emotional abuse sometimes covert one.
Some people say that borderline is a confusing term because it doesn't specify the border between what and what. Thats okay with me because half the time I don't even know what I'm on the border of.
One last thing isn't every mental illness a variation of emotional unstability?
http://www.borderlinepersonalitytoday.com/main/name_change2.htm
They must know that it has a bad stigma and that "emotionally unstable" only make it worse.
Nicky i see your point because you understand our disorder.
But most people don't, there's articles on net that say what "horrid" people we are.....
And a lot of specially men have been calling their wives "emotionally unstable!" for years....All they need now is to say "i told you!"....
Those docs are not thinking it through.
Bordeline is fine with me, because i am at the border of loosing it most of the time.
But i agree it should have a name totally unrelated to describing anything abou it, in fact maybe even one that people can not misconstruct with that in mind by docs just to validate and protect us.
When i was told i had BPD i was so angry cos i didnt understand what the hell all this was but had i been told that i had EUPD i would off found it easier to get my head around even know i would have still been angry.