If she wanted what was in her journal posted, she would have posted it. If AusSue wanted to read her journal, she would have gone and read it.

That was not your job to bring it here. (big sigh, rolls eyes)

sunnygurl you can write whatever you want in YOUR journal. it's like an online diary. why were you even reading HER journal. why would anyone whant to read someones journal who they obviousely have a problem with????
i can't believe i'm having to explain this to an adult.
*rolls eyes*

Aus, don't leave..

Just focus on positive.

(Hugs) Mary

I'm sorry but I don't understand why people are upset & write good bye notes to the group as a whole. What are you looking for from us?

If there are topics that upset me, I don't read them. I talk with the people who I do trust & have shown that they are standing with me.

Seems a lot of the things I know nothing about because I only read what will make me grow.

Don't mean to push anyone's buttons but would really like to know.

Oh c'mon, this is insanity. Do you want to fix the problems here or do you want to be right?? I'm not the only one that feels this way, and I think many of us are just not saying anything because the same group pops up and jumps down our throats. I don't have to have a reason to read a journal, that's what this site is for.. lol

I'm also not gonna be put on the defensive because your friend is the one that did the damage. Didn't you ever wonder where these bickering posts start to begin with? Because nobody wants to address the problem at hand, and they go on about with details to distract from it. Anyone who wants to read my journals can. I wouldn't make it public if i didn't want the rest of DS to access it.

If I also offended someone in my journal I would also expect to be called out about it. It's called ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. Do you think she put that there to just vent?? If she did she wouldn't have kept it there for all to see.

I'm so done with this subject.. and trying to make things right around here either. You guys go ahead and continue on with your denial. I have to reserve my energy for my kids, and family.

wow

good sunnygurl!
i'm glad you're done with this subject. i'm also glad that you are going to give your energy to your family instead of wasting it reading someones journal, then trying to use it to fight with, then trying to justify your actions. damn my energys getting drained just writing the list

I think people like to forgive each other as much as possible they suuuure get alot of practice

This is so hurtful to me. Not the fact that ppl may or may not have said the wrong thing or answered in a manner unpleasing, its the fact that you ask a question and you will get a different answer from everyone on these boards. Everyone on here has a different upbringing, education, life experiances, and religions.

Everyone has read different books and been influenced by different people, places and things.
What I get sick of hearing about is pity. I could ask a question like the one asked everyday because I don't have a dx, I don't have insurance anymore as of last week and Aussue I don't drive or work and use a scooter as well. I don't have medication or answers but I don't get on here and ask a question and expect the heavens to open up and a scroll to be handed to me with a complete list of instructions.

Why would anyone else? we cant see facial expressions on here and we can't in anyway know how bad the other person feels or hurts. We don't know if they are scared or just need attention?
Lets all think before we assume someone is just being evil.

Q- do you like my avatar ? anybody else like coloring lol

Good afternoon, everyone, I just want to invite you all to a nice Pity Party I throwing this evening. It's a casual affair, so you don't have to dress up or wear anything fancy.
Just bring all your self-flagellation, overly critical, excessively self-absorbed, extremely ungrateful and victimized mind-sets with you.
It's a BYOSS (Bring Your Own SOB Story) party and you invite as many as guests as you want. And guys, please leave your sense of humor and ability to laugh at yourself at home.
This is a Pity Party and we want to have a good time and we don't want anyone spoiling our fun.

you know on this one..im not reading past the part of someone posting what kay wrote in her journal...

that in my humble opinion..was just wrong... kays journal is for kay to write her feelings in...sorry but whoever and no i did not look at the poster of that one..just grazed and seen look at what kay wrote in her journal..and stopped right there...
to me that was definately an invasion of privacy..

hell i have three teenages...even though their rooms dont have locks..i would not go into their rooms and search them...it is called once again..in case no one here has learned anything in the last damn week..RESPECT... i respect my children to much for that...and i respect Kay to much to read her journal..sigh...
hell my kids dont search my room...the only thing i keep locked is my divorce papers and my pot..sigh...

what happened on here was so totally wrong....i cannot absoutly believe cannot believe this has happend...sigh...

in the two years i have been here.....never..and i do mean never....has anyone broken the cardinal rule of posting from someones journal....pardon my launguage..but holy shit..what were you thinking whoever did that...sigh...
talk about not having morals or values...sigh...

and AusSue..im so sorry that you are leaving and have not found what you are looking for on here..sigh..i wish i could promise you that it would get better...but at this point i no longer believe it myself..and i myself am considering leaving DS at this point if this is what it has come to ..people posting from others journals..sigh

Kay a note to you..report this as abuse...that is what it was..plain and simple abuse...whoever did this to you had no right to do so...none at all...they had no right...hon...im so sorry this has happended to you...

whoever did this..im not going back through this posting..im fed up at this point...hold your head up high..im sure you feel justifed in some small way and are proud of yourself...i only know that if you were or are a friend of mine...i would not trust you to not get angry at me at one point and start posting my journal entries on the main board....
friends like that cannot be trusted by anyone after doing something like that to someone....sigh...

hugs
heather

YAAAAAAA heather ditto to everything you said

exactly >>> wow !!!

the lies here are way to much bear lmao if I would have known that 99% of you on those thread were hypocrites liars and people out to display maximum hate I would have never left in the first place what a bunch of garbage . I could yank up statements that would make any of you look like hypogrites yeah I'd say the biggest trouble makers are the ones who have been here the longest, hang out are lonely and bored and need their battle fixes .