Multiple Sclerosis (MS) Support Group
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Squeemom2
I made yet another mistake at work. This is a total of 4 mistakes since my symptoms started. A total of 4 mistakes in one year. My boss has said that she wants to have a discussion with me and her boss when her boss returns next week. I'm worried they are going to fire me or write me up. I put in a call to the MS Society today and they're supposed to be calling me back around 4. I want to know my rights before we have this meeting next week. Ugh. I used to be able to juggle this all. I used to be able to do it. I can't lose my job. I make more money than my husband and I carry our health insurance. He is a contractor so he does not have access to health insurance at all. We have two kids, our house is already in foreclosure and we plan to file bankruptcy in January. I've been with my employer for 8 years. Pretty much since I graduated from college. Wish me luck!
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Melanie
Definately get a letter from your Dr. Dp not blurt out MS. If you were positive the conversation would stay only between the 3 people, but it won't.
Definately get legal advised from either the MS Society or the legal team in your neurologist's office before saying or doing anything.
You have my sympathy. My thoughts go out to you. We support you.
This last mistake was I didn't call to double check when some numbers didn't match up to verify I was running the correct ad. I remember seeing the problem, thinking I should call and then I apparently never did and it was wrong. The wrong ad ran. Things like that.
Anyway, MS society said to contact the Job Accommodation Network. I haven't had any cognitive testing done but I think I may need to if this goes any farther. I'm not going to blurt out the MS thing (or currently "Clinically Isolated Syndrome" in my case) but I will keep it in my pocket. I don't think they can fire me straight out because of a disability unless they first attempt to make accommodations. MS is stressful, unpredictable and often invisible to those around us. Like I feel pretty good and I look pretty good today....but I can't feel my toes and I'm a bit out of it. Nobody would know that unless I told them or wore a sign or something. Such a weird disease.