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this feeling I am having

tbbrandyn
tbbrandyn
The other night (friday) I was crampping so bad that I was in tears. I went outside to get some fresh air for a few minutes and to just get out of the house. As soon as I stepped outside I felt a glush of fluid and went right back inside and right to the bathroom. When I got there I guess it was my 'waterbreaking' so to say. i gto cleaned up and when i got done in the bathroom i got up and then i saw some clots and somthing that scared me a little. there was something that looked grey in color but was the size of the clots that I was passing. So I told my mother and she said that I just passed it. I was like wow and in shock. Last year it took me almost 2 weeks to pass it and this time i started bleeding the day before and within 24 hours i was in the bathroom passing it. I was just scared and didnt know what to do or what to say. so i just did what i had to do and just went in tothe room and played with my boys. it was scary.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry for your losses. Last week, I went for my 9 week ultrasound and my baby had no heartbeat. I was scheduled for a D&E but they gave me a pill that brought on cramping and bleeding. i passed my little baby at 5am on my own. I still had to have the D&E and I have basically been incredibly sad since then. This was a pregnancy that I have dreamed of through years of infertility that I achieved through IVF. I hope that you feel better in time and I am sorry that it was a scary experience for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm so sorry. How far along we're you? That sounds a lot like my experience. My water broke and a few hours later i passed my baby boy. I was 15 weeks, so he was white and looked like a tiny baby. But if you weren't as far along, your baby might have looked like tissue. Have u been to the doctor? And did you keep the tissue? The dr may be able to tell you what it is. I passed a ton of hug blood clots, my umbilical cord and some tissue as well. I know it's tough..I lost mine due to incompetent cervix. Message me if young want more info...it's terryifying and it might make you feel better to talk about it.
tbbrandyn
tbbrandyn
I akm sorry that you are going through this too. I would have been 10 weeks tomorrow. When I had an ultrasound thursday it was saying i was 8 wks 2 days when i should have been 9 wks 2 days. so everything stopped growing a week before that. It was gray in color while everything else was bright red in color that i have been passing and it looked about the same as the one that i lost and passed last year on oct 1. I was due may 25th, just 9 days later then i was due last year. so it was very hard and i have just bottling it all up inside bc my boyfriend (future hubby) dont want to talk about it. I have a few things in my living room right now for my baby last year that I named Angel, since we didnt know what we was having and its a neutral name. I got a baby angel and an bear angel with the May birthstone in his hands since i was due in May and I love bears. I ended up getting a bear angel for Nov (mine and my almost 8 yrs birthdays), MArch(for my hubby's birthday) and April(for our 2 yr old sons birthday). I have them on my tv stand so I can see it all the time. I put the baby angel on a gold colored shelf by the front door with a gold painted angel candle.
I dont know what happened this time or last time. I wish that I knew what was going on so I could know if it was something that i could to make sure that it doesnt happen again if we was to try again. But i dont think that we are going to. I dont know if I can go through it again and its not fair to keep going through this. I dont know how he is dealing with it and i was just getting ok with what happened last year and being able to deal with it. But now I am depressed and feeling alone and lost. I have been writing how i have been feeling down, in like a jounral but its not really helpping anymore. I am just so lost right now.