Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
sam23
I just found out that 13 weeks of pregnancy being the time when the risk of miscarriage goes down, is a complete myth. My doctor just told me that after you hear a heartbeat for the first time, your risk of miscarriage decreases greatly. She said the myth that it was the 13 week mark started b/c most doctors didnt listen for a heartbeat until around 12 weeks and so people assumed that after 12 weeks was when you could rest easy. While I know that anything can happen at any point, it does kind of ease my mind to know at least I have a less than 2 percent chance of miscarriage starting as early as 6 weeks depending upon when I have my first appointment to hear the heartbeat, and I dont have to wait till 13 weeks to breathe a little easier. I know this will comfort me the next time I get pregnant.
Did anyone else know this? b/c it came as a shock to me.
Did anyone else know this? b/c it came as a shock to me.
deleted_user
Sadly I knew this too, however I lost my baby even after I saw the heartbeat at 6 weeks.
deleted_user
I did not know that. When I heard my son's hb at 6 weeks it was 114bpm and the doctor said i probably wouldnt mc but two weeks later I did. but even so...knowing that will make me rest easier the next time around. Its amazing that so many things can go wrong...
kokomokers
I knew that once you see a heartbeat the risk of m/c decreases a lot, and when you see fetal movement it drops even more. I saw the hb twice and I saw movement once...and I ended up having a missed miscarriage. I don't know if it has anything to do with it, but both times I saw the hb the tech was unable to get a heart rate b/c the hb was too erratic to have a h/r. Things were probably wrong from the start I guess.
deleted_user
i did not know that but i lost my baby even after i heard the hb. :(
deleted_user
i did know that, but unfortionately i m/c my first time 5 days after i heard the hb
babydream
interesting, didnt know that. I saw my babys strong HB at 7 weeks and when I went in at 13 weeks they told me there was nothing..missed mc and baby died at 8 weeks
deleted_user
wow thats crazy. and to think they put me on bedrest until i was out of the woods and into the second trimester of my pregnancy!! thats crazy
debbie7730
Actually, I am not sure this is entirely true. Although the risks drop sharply after you get a heartbeat, they continue to go down once you reach the second trimester. You can actually find tables with the risks. Thus, each milestone decreases the chances.
deleted_user
I did know that I lost my baby at 17 weeks, it is a slim chance but is still very much a reality.
deleted_user
I didn't know that, but I heard my baby's heartbeat and three days later miscarried. I guess the heartbeat was a little slow.
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