Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
It is coming up fast on me and in just under 2 months i wil be at my due date, well what it would have been. I am starting to get depressed as it gets closer and closer. i have things around my living room that I have placed for my lil Angel in Heaven so that there will always be something to let us know that we have a little angelin heaven wachng over u every day. Also found out the other day that my step sister is pregnant and is due on my birthday. I dont really know who she is, just that she is my moms husbands daughter and i will be meeting her for the first time in a month if she is going to come to my sons birthday party.
We are trying to have another baby, we have talked about it from time to time but idont now if i want to try again and it happen again since i havent seen a doctor and i can see a doctor. I am so lost and confused. I dont know what to do right now and with everything else that is going on, i dont have anyone to talk to when i need them. I feel i am just floating aroud.
We are trying to have another baby, we have talked about it from time to time but idont now if i want to try again and it happen again since i havent seen a doctor and i can see a doctor. I am so lost and confused. I dont know what to do right now and with everything else that is going on, i dont have anyone to talk to when i need them. I feel i am just floating aroud.
We, here on this site, understand though and most of us have gone through the exact same situation as you (with no one to talk to who would understand).
Honestly, my best coping mechanism was to stay away if I needed to or be present but distant so that my feelings aren't triggered in front of everyone. And if they are, I'll step away for a second so that I don't make a scene especially if the pregnant person is receiving attention about her baby.
If your partner is around, I would suggest to talk to him about how you really really feel. This way you have his support and comfort although we've realized that men don't cope the same way we do.
It's a hard thing to go through and if you at least have one person (maybe someone else) who can be there for you when you need to talk immediately, that helps. If not, we're here and we will gladly talk to you about it.