Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Support Group
This community is a place where you can share your long distance challenges and triumphs, vent, give long distance tips and ideas, or just get support from people like you who are going through the same thing. Whether you live a couple hours away or a couple continents away, the specific challenges that face a long distance relationship are unique and difficult.
I was scared in the beginning that things wouldn't work out also but I think those are fears we all face because of the distance. I didn't fear being alone, I had no intentions of getting into another relationship at that time, we were just on-line friends but our friendship grew into more.
If you're both determined to make it work, you both put forth the effort, know what you both want, there's nothing peventing it from working.
So, I married a jerk and decided last fall that it was time to get out of the abusive marriage. Around that time, J and I reconnected via fb and fell for each other right away - separated by the whole country. I was shocked at the feelings that hit me like a truck when we started talking. THIS guy was the one? Really? Eighteen years after we fooled around? Wow. So, we've had 4 visits with each other, I am in the middle of divorce, which I was already headed for and would be doing anyway, even w/o J. We'll see each other again next month. I hope and pray every day for a real life together!
It hasn't always been easy (we even broke up once), but these situations NEVER are. If you both are willing to do what it takes to make things work, then you'll be okay. I wish you both the very best in the New Year. :)
Good to see your around again Maddie! :)
@leatherandlace-I love ur last sentence
But we started talking on Facebook and texting, then calling and Skyping each other more often. Eventually he said he wanted to take me out to dinner and that I needed to come visit him in Hawaii. So, I did :)
We're young, yeah. But, I figure that if we have the infallible strength to go through something like this together, then we'll have the very same strength to beat the odds and spend the rest of our lives with each other.