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AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

I am scared I will never succeed. I am scared I will never be loved by anyone. I am scared I will never be happy. I am scared I will never get to have a fun life with friends that care about me.I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like a dissapointment to everyone. Nobody likes me and I feel like nobody will.

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
Let's write a new story!.....I am confident I will succeed! I am positive I will be loved by someone! I am sure I will be happy! I am certain I will have a fun life with friends who care about me! Everybody loves me and I love them!

You see....when you change your story...you change your life! It just takes a change in perception!

God Bless
hasty_05
hasty_05
You are in an unhappy family situation right now. Time will pass and you will become 18 and able to move out and on your own. Start to prepare now. All this negative stuff you write is simply not true. You make yourself sick and unhappy by saying all this stuff. While many young people your age feel this same way, and I think I had times like this when I was your age way back when, still you have to consider what bobinmaine said. Change your story, your narrative you tell yourself.

So start now. Tell me one thing you did today to help someone? How did you treat your little brother? I suspect your little brother loves you but you may mean no man will ever love you.

Oh, not true, my young friend. If you do your work on yourself, learn to be mature and wise, you will attract a loving man (or woman) who "wants" you. Hang in there.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09
Well, today a played with my little brothers. We laughed together for hours.
GreenEyes727
GreenEyes727
Hi! That's great that you played with your brothers and had fun. You know, like Bob said, you can change your life by changing your thoughts. I was very shy in high school, especially around boys. I had a lot of friends but I was far from popular. After high school, I gained confidence. Around 1985, I joined my class reunion committee. At our last reunion, I was saying hi to everyone, talking to people that I talked to 45 years ago like it was nothing, including the popular kids. So see, life really can change. Do you have YouTube? There are lots of motivational videos on there. I like Mel Robbins. Keep writing on here.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09
Yes, I have youtube.
GreenEyes727
GreenEyes727
Okay well check out a video by Mel Robbins about the High Five Rule.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09
Will do.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09
Dang. I really need to start watching her videos. That is BRILLIANT!
GreenEyes727
GreenEyes727
I just saw your last reply. She's very encouraging. Feeling any less scared?
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09
Ya
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