welcome to us....I hear ya...we are good folks here and they are going to be friends with you here....I hope you stick around and make it thru without thinking of heaven any more because that is scary from my point of view...

Thank you so much. As much as I would like to be in Heaven, I would NEVER take my own life.

Thanks so much for the kind words, and encouragement.

Hi Debbie, welcome. I'm not very bright so bear with me. You say that you are not wanted. Who would have said that to you? That's not very nice of them.
Well, we want you.
Have you found someone to really care for? If you have, and they are honest, they will really care for you. One person is enough, right?
If that one person is not in your life right now, I hope that you don''t mind me asking, but what are you doing to find that person? You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket.
Chin up, girl, you can do it.

Hello, I understand where you are coming from and it's hard to live that way. I hope you can find some comfort here and maybe make some friends along the way. Hugs

DDebbie, You are not alone. I am in the same Boat. I am 48 But I live, I help take care of My Mom & She helps take Care of Me 24 / 7. I am scared to leave Her alone if I ever had a Date or a Relationship. I asked Myself if I was in a Relationship would My Boyfriend Understand. Call Your Family - Friends & See How they are doing. Don 't shut Yourself Out. If You keep staying in this rut it will only get worst & You don 't deserve to be Unhappy. You have Friends Here. I am one if You want to be My Friend.

I was an unwanted child too. My spirit has always known and felt that from the moment of conception. I've lived 46 years with no one ever wanting or loving me. With parents, relatives and most people doing everything they could to destroy me, and they won. All of them did. So I know how u feel. I cant wait til the day I go home to Jesus.

Glad that you found us here! There are some wise words here, and I hope it helps. It is very easy to start feeling unwanted - but think about it, if you believe in Heaven, then you know God wants you, and put you here for a reason. If God wants you, why wouldn't anyone else? You are meant to be here and you are wanted, try not to forget that and get too discouraged!

wow i a,m the same way. almost word for word i cant believe it. ive as well as you am very much alone. sinse childhood . id like to talk to you if you want to.i know somewhat at least how it feels.because im there as well.

Ddebbie, I am sorry you feel alone, it is such a hard feeling to lose. Can you do volunteer work and make new friends? Dont believe that you need to go to heaven for this.

Hey how many people end up in heaven anyway

Debble please add me as your friend, we have alot in common I know this from reading your post. I won't go away.

Thank you everyone for your words of encouragement. I haven't been on here, but have received the emails from you, and it really helped to know there are other people out there that do care.

I distracted myself by buying a 1988 Jeep Comanche. $900 :) It needs a lot of work and TLC, so that is what I have been doing the last few days to get my mind off of being alone. I pressure washed the engine & body, which was really really dirty. I don't think they had washed this car in 10 years. It had moss 2" thick growing on the mud flaps. I replaced the oil pressure sending unit that was leaking oil, all the fuses because the fuse box has had clutch fluid leaking on it. Next is to get the muffler and tail pipe replaced.

No, I don't usually work on cars or trucks. I don't like getting greasy (I had to cut all my fingernails because I couldn't get the grease out). I haven't worked on one in 15 years, but I am a perfectionist and I also have a knack for figuring just about anything out. I just wish I could figure myself out! :)

Well, as to feeling of not being wanted. I am aware that this started when I was in the womb, and my Mother confirmed that she didn't want me, and even went to months of counseling during her pregnancy to get over it. So I know the source, and have been praying that God would heal that area in my heart and mind.

Love all you guys, and thank you again for your kind words and friend requests. I will accept them all when I finish this. :^)

i too suffer from this. from childhood and now in my adult life. my loneliness has led me to stay in unhealthy relationships and settle for less than what i deserved. you are not alone in the way you feel. (hug) hope it gets better for us all.

I have felt this way to from time to time, but realizing now that we have all have greater purpose. Things can get better. As you can see, you have friends on DS your not alone.

I don't feel wanted either or valued by my family. I think they are annoyed by my positive outlook and love for animals. I am a kind a person and it's hard to realize that not everyone values that quality. I feel like my dad just asks me questions to try and covertly put me down. It really hurts. I feel really down myself after being around them for 2.5 days. It really sucks. I had a terrible weekend.

I hope you try and open up to someone and trust the light of the Lord to guide you in this quest.

Take care,
Suzi

I am 46 and married with 2 kids, but have always felt alone and unwanted, unneeded. I am not close with my sisters. I have no brothers so I am the only boy with 5 sisters. That didn't help matters. We all have some of these same feelings, but being here helps so I hope you find some friends here as I have.