Hi Jasper: I had to go to an appointment this afternoon and they were checking out my bad hand and just moved my thumb in ways that put it in bad pain, so it's not a good night for me. But your post to me felt like you had found hope and it gave me a real bright spot tonight that I needed. Thanks for giving me that "helping hand."

My cat also saw the vet late this afternoon and I have to change the type of litter because it is causing him irritation. So I am encouraged RIGHT NOW to work through the hand pain and get that litter changed NOW. See Jasper, you inspired and created Mega Woman, able to change litter boxes without screaming with hand pain!!!! (My cat, The Marshmallow thanks you greatly for the power to inspire me because he wants this litter change. His sister, The Boss, thanks you for kicking my butt to change his pig stys because she said he is a pig when it comes to his bathroom and it's why she uses dog training pads instead of sharing a bathroom with him---but brothers and sisters rarely get along.). Many hugs Jasper.

Cats are awesome :).

I don't think you're selfish, just overly frustrated about your life. I think you should try to make a effort to continue the topics that you post. Read your replies, respond to them. People only take the time to offer advice or other comments because they care. This is a support group and we need to support each other. *hugs*

hey I am not mad at ya....I don't like to see people wishing to take the road to self destruction and that kind of makes me mad but I think you have made a lot of progress with that subject....so keep up the good work and thanks for helping the cats mafia boss because marshmellow needed new litter....LOL

YO JASPER: I got the new litter in the litter boxes last night and I could only get it in a huge bag, and it was you that gave me the strength to do it. Thanks so much for that.

See, with the message you wrote, if you lived near me, I would be saying---hey, I have to show you the ducks and geese at the park and the way they honk and make noise when people go by and it sounds like a crowd laughing at the people going by. You'll have to see it and hear it and I know you'll laugh like I do. The ducks and geese are the best comedians.

You automatically became much more approachable and generated more warmth to communicate with.

Hey, the cats both said "you rock" for motivating me to dump out and clean the litterboxes and replace with the completely new litter (which my one cat is not allergic to). My cat The Boss said that when she takes over the world, she will have a place for you in her administration. And The Boss keeps her word.