Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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jsealy
jsealy

Hi Ladies. I'm back. I'm still lonely. I still can't get a girlfriend. I go to AA. I'll never be one of the Sex Heroes that go there. LOL. I'm just not rich enough or violent enough to get any aldies interested in me. I'm cursed by being a decent human being. Oh well. Next life. Next life. Bless you.

brandnewangel
brandnewangel
Maybe try a dating site but One thing I’m learning is whenever I go looking for a relationship its just really a hookup not a meaningful relationship,
maria718
maria718
Awww...don't think like that. There's nice ladies out there, and there's many more than available men!!
Maybe you're doing something that you don't realize you're doing, so that women aren't interested?
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?
I've been to AA years ago with my former mate, so I know what goes on there.
I know a lot of outsiders wouldn't date anyone who goes to AA, but I'm sure there's nice ladies there too, or they are also in Al-Anon, for friends or relatives with drinking problems.
Hang in there. You can't be all that bad. You're trying. You probably are a nice guy, you will meet someone.
jsealy
jsealy
Thank you. I appreciate that. I just came home from a meeting. I do realize that everyone has problems. I'm schizoeffective. So I get some crazy mood swings. I like working a program for self improvement and building a relationship with God. I started drinking and smoking pot at 14 because I couldn't get a girlfriend then. I used to play a lot of guitar and sang. I wanted to be a famous rock star. I didn't get anywhere. But I still like playing music to be creative. I've just never been part of the In Crowd. I had 3 good relationships from 1998 until about 2008. I really haven't had hardly any romance since then. But I did my very best to be good to the girlfriends I've had in the past. Thanks for your response. :)
Allyn123
Allyn123
This is my first time here, I RECENTLY lost the love of my life to Cancer.
Tropicaloo
Tropicaloo
Do you really believe that’s what women want? May be that’s part of the problem.
jsealy
jsealy
I don't. I regret my selfishness. I see two parts to a relationship. First is winning the relationship. Second is building a life together. I was raised to be moral. Definitely not to be abusive. And of course good manners. I feel I am very empathetic. Being a decent person to another is very important to me. However, the first part of the relationship is the hard part to me. I have never been good at socialization. I've always felt like an outsider. Those who are winners in the social arena have the best chance of wooing a partner. That's what's really hard for me. I'm not given to being a social winner. Because of that I rarely get close enough to a possible partner to woo her. Then my envy kicks in. However, I do feel that ladies want a guy that feels confident and in control of his destiny. I do have ambitions. However, I lag on that confidence aspect. That's my best response. Thank you for your comment.