I dont have a partner....probably never will. But hey, aint no rest for the wicked.

Yes I can feel alone in a crowd

Cause there not in Tune with you : (

I know how you feel. I too feel alone sometimes when my bf is around. If you want to talk to someone about it, you can send me a message any time. :-)

I feel loneliest when my husband is home. His attention is everywhere but on me. I have a lot of medical problems and he doesn't like to be around sick people. He told me once that I was no fun anymore.

When you live with someone who is supposed to care about you and they don't, you feel lonelier than if you were alone. When my husband is home I have expectations that he'll never meet. But I still have them. I'm a hopeless romantic.

Sometimes it seems like a person doesn't feel they "can" or "ought" to feel dismal/lonely around their "partner." I think sometimes we feel like we must always be in a good mood no matter what around people that are close to us.

Amen to that FG.

When I had a fiance, I realized he wasn't for me and left. He thought I was the most positive person in the world and had no tolerance for anyone who was ill. While with him, I felt lonely after we were together for a while. I felt I couldn't really be myself, but was anyway. He was jealous, and started making my life miserable. I got out and am sooo glad. I met someone else and no longer felt lonely with him. However; I broke it off with him because he was several years younger than me even though he said I could compete with a 20 year old. I broke it off due to fear because of my daddy and ex. Ex treated me like a queen to my face, but was having affairs and is a pedophile, so I had trust issues. I'm finally over them now...just trust my instincts. If I feel lonely with the person I'm with now, I feel I don't need to be with them. I know that sounds easier said than done, but it works for me. I like being with those who get me and understand so that we're in tune with each other. I'm going to be myself as I like who I am. I told that to my ex-fiance and he was for once at a loss for words when I told him I wasn't changing for him or anybody else and he needed someone different from me! It felt great! I think we feel lonely in a crowd when there are those there that we don't have anything in common with. I love it when I meet people that aren't like robots; but are real. On here, we all seem to "get it" and that's refreshing! BTW, I used to be quiet and shy and didn't talk much...now, I'm a chatterbox! LOL