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mas5707
mas5707
Let's just say that in the near future I get into a relationship with a girl and she asks me about my previous ones. Just for the record, I haven't been in any. Do girls think that's a turnoff, or does it even bother them? I don't want to lie, I know now the hard way that never turns out good. I am also embarrassed to say I've never had a relationship, I'm afraid she'll think that I'm inexperienced or a loser or something.
Any thoughts or advice?
bonusjack
bonusjack
Some girls like shy guys, but they still want the patter - it proves that your brain is working. You could honestly say that you have never been in a relationship that turned out to mean anything. If you need to embellish, mention that perhaps you made some bad choices along the way. Then start remembering all the people you thought about going out with, and why you didn't.
deleted_user
deleted_user
mas...Just be yourself. If the girl doesn't like the "real" mas....then she isn't worth having....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I second that one Spirit!
mas5707
mas5707
First off, thanks for the replies.
Second, bonusjack, I don;t know what a patter is.
Third, I have not been in any serious relationship, period.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with them too. If a guy told me that I would actually think more of him. I would think he's open, honest and didn't date just any chick that gave him her number. He has some standards and some class.
Your taking the right path. peace/kim
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