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a friend (from my journal)

Nev
Nev

yesterday I tried to talk to a girl who I used to go out with.I just said hello and asked how she was.


She answered me only today. She said she was really busy, she was trying to organize herself, said she missed me.


My thoughts are:


- she answered the other day so she wouldn't have a conversation with me (and answered when I was not online)


- she is saying she is busy so that I don't invite her for anything, otherwise I will listen to a "no"


- she doesn't miss me, she never asks how I am, I am always the one who sends messages, she is just trying to be nice and polite.


I don't know if those thoughts are true but that is the way I feel. In the end I just got pissed for having sent a message, I knew it would be like this.

imiru
imiru
hey now dont get mad at yourself for trying. You can at least say you did try where she didnt. and your thoughts may be spot on or maybe overthinking it who knows. She could have been super busy as she said out with someone or working who knows but for now its alright. Remember your the one that tried.
billwfriend
billwfriend
was this a dating friend as in woman and woman or just friends? I do think if woman on woman then I would let her go...if happens it is just friends give her some space and be a good friend if she needs one but the you contacting her always says more about her needs than about you....hugs
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