Hi Annie,
I know exactly where your coming from....the courage...the fear, the aniexty everyday IF we try again. Yeah, people treat us like Leppers...oh don't talk about it, don't talk to her or she'll cry, its like the forbidden topic...which is MORE hurtful than the tears they could share with us. I have found a good list of what to say or not to say..if you want it maybe you can send it to your family. I did post it on the miscarriage page a month ago or so. "guide to helping someone after miscarriage." I went to and still going to a counselor....it is amazing what telling your story to a 3rd party impartial to anything is very healing. I am going to start going to a local support group...i am not sure about that one, but now 5weeks since my 2nd loss..I am a mess...
and of course this website...the miscarriage support group seems to be more active than this living with recurrent mc...but I hope you find some support and comfort here.
Natalie

My heart goes out to all of you. I have 5 precious babies in Heaven. I lost my first daughter Elizabeth Marie, at 6 weeks in June 13th, 2001. My next Angels where my Twins, (Tobie) Tobias James and (Zoey) Jedzia Anne. I had an emergency delivery at 20 weeks on July 28th, 2005. I lost my next Little One Michael Scott at 7 weeks on December 15th, 2005. I lost My last baby Hannah Nachole at 7 weeks on October 3rd, 2010.

Hello, my name is Maria. I've had 3 miscarriages since Nov of 2009. They were all around 5 weeks, no D+C needed. I saw a fertility doctor and all my tests came back "normal" I have also had the intense bloodwork for morpholgy, blood clotting etc and all was normal. I was hoping for an answer so I could fix it but I'm back at square one with no babies and just a broken heart. I am sorry for all your losses.

I am so sorry for both of your losses. I don't think this group has much activity..I joined a month ago or so, and there isn't alot of discussion. I am sad and sorry that this has to be such a group..it is very heartbreaking and sad. but we do have support here which is one thing!

My name is Jessica. I have only had two miscarriages both in 2010. First one was 5-5-10 then again 8-12-10. Both were only about 6 weeks along. Thankfully though it is sad my mother in law had to go through 8 losses and during that time found out she has a balanced translocation. http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Handbook_of_Genetic_Counseling/Balanced_Translocation#Introduction_and_Contracting
Her fourth pregnancy was my husband Josh and he came out normal but with a balanced translocation also. Here is where our losses come in and how we knew what our chances were. From the beginning we knew what we were getting into bc of his mom but were not going to give up on trying. I believe that the Lord will give us a child of our own someday I just have to keep the faith as I wait for his promises to come.

Thinking of you all as you continue to heal.

Hello my name is Nicky. I had my 1st mc June 22, 2010 I was 9w4d along. I went to a doctor's appt at 11 weeks and the midwife used a doppler and their was no heartbeat detected, she reassured me that everything was okay it was just to early to hear the heartbeat. Then I went back around 13ish week for an appt, they used the u/s and determined there was no heartbeat. I had to have a D&C, I had carried the baby for about a month without any bleeding or cramps before the D&C. I had my 2nd mc December 7, 2010, I went in for a doctor's appt and there was no heartbeat on the doppler, this time they took me for an u/s right away and determined there was no heartbeat, I had another D&C because it didn't appear that I could pass the baby naturally. The doctor told us to wait 6 months before we start trying again.

Nicky,
I am so sorry for you losses. I hope that this site will be able to provide you some comfort as it has me and beginning to heal. It is the worst experiece and pain a person can ever experience. The loss of a child....it just plain sucks. thank you for sharing your story and hope it helps to tell it.

Hello all you lovely ladies and sorry for your losses. I am Rachel and I have had two missed miscarriages, one in December 08 and one on November 10. Both were similiar all was well until week 6 when heartbeat stopped but we did not find out until week ten the first time and week eight the second time. We only found out earlier the second time because we had an early scan. I've been looking for an active board and it looks like this is the one. I look forward to sharing hope and tears and stories with you all. x

I suffered my first loss last October, my son Tiberius was stillborn at 37 weeks, they aren't too sure why, they believe it was a cord accident or undiagnosed IUGR, or placental failure. We were elated to become pregnant again at the beginning of this year, only to find out at our 19 week ultrasound last week that our little girl, Matea, has Bilateral Renal Agenesis and will not survive outside the womb. This will be our second loss, we have no living children but have had to bury too once she makes her arrival. We are carrying her to term, if she can hang on that long, despite her prognosis. No reason for her kidneys not to have grown, like Ty our losses are unexplained. I feel so lost, so alone, so angry and upset.

Hi there, I have had several losses in the last couple years. A few d&c's, and then the rest naturally. They were the most painful, emotionally devastating experiences of my life. I feel very alone.

hello :) my name is crystal. i had my first miscarriage at 9 weeks in sept of 2011 and my second miscarriage was very recent, april 4, 2012 at 6 weeks. i am no scared to get pregnant in the future and am trying to heal mentally and physically. hoping this group will give me support and advice :)

Hi, my name is Becca. We had our first MC in August of 09. Since then, we've had 5 more. We've been through all the tests and are unexplained. Our RE wants to try the "TLC" approach, and we're TTC this month. I have mixed feelings going into this cycle. I'm just not sure how many more losses I can manage.

Hello, My name is Luci.
I am joining the group after multiple losses.
My first a daughter at 23 weeks (3/15/11)
A second was twins at 13 weeks (12-11-11)
The last was a daughter at 15 weeks (10-24-12)

I have been very recently diagnosed with NAIT. If anyone has a similar condition I am dying to talk to anyone about it.

Hi my name is Kerstin.
I have lost my son to bilateral renal agenesis on march 13 2011.
It was very hard. I carried him till almost 39weeks. Then we burried him.
the specialist said it wouldnt happen to me ever again.Today i am 19weeks pregnant and had my u/s.
i.saw right away there was no fluid and knew right away it was happening again.i cant believe it. I dont know what to do. Last time i decided to carry till full term but i dont know if i can handle that again. Please pray for me and my husband

Hi. I lost two babies Ava and Phoenix recently and have suffered many miscarriages before that. I lost Ava and Phoenix at 19 weeks (as they say- it was really a few weeks more than that). I am very devastated. People can get more and more discouraging when you don't understand why you loose. It's hard.