Waking up with someone next to me is definitely something I miss. My dog has taken to sleeping with me and it just is not the same.

I miss the connection sex brought and the intimacy of having a mans body next to mine, it is only a dream now, one I'm praying for to be fulfilled before I'm really old with wrinkles and saggy everything. I'm still young enough to really enjoy it at this point but if the years keep going on and on with no prospects in sight, I'm afraid I won't ever see sex again! Ok, now I'm really sad...

I miss it a lot.

I miss the closeness of laying there with her afterwards. Plus all the kinky fun we had as newlyweds and bf/gf. It hurts that she left me for a guy she met in an online video game...

yes...i miss it terribly...

So this past weekend, I was partying with some of my friends at a bar. The party end up back at my place and well one thing led to another, and I ended up having sex with someone I had just met that night. Never in my life have I done such a thing, but WOW what an experience. I am pretty sure it was a one night stand and I do not plan to have this become a practice of mine. However, I now see why my sex life was so lacking in my marriage. My ex was wham, bam, thank you mam and it was all over in less than 5 minutes whether I had an orgasm or not. The sex the other night lasted for hours, I was unaware a man could have that more than one orgasm a night., and that they could have staying power until I could have an orgasm. If nothing else this experience taught me that men do find me attractive(my ex reinforced that was not the case when we were breaking up as I am about 20 lbs overweight). Also I learnt that there is alot about sex I still need to learn. However, one night stands will not become my style, don't like the feelings I have about it now. I feel cheap, but the person who I had sex with made me feel so special by even having sex with me. that is the memory I cherish.

I miss the closeness of having someone there and the sex part is part of that trust piece, you can get sex but its not the same without the emotional ties.

I agree with you, but just to hav esex was so nice, even if the emotional bonds were not there. As I say, never had sex like this before, but it was enjoyable thid time.

I am with you iasaw. I had a rebound relationship that lasted 4 months. It started about 7 months after my ex moved out. I learned that I still have a lot to learn about sex. Like you, I was amazed at the staying power of the man I was with and also what he seemed to know about my body that I didn't even know. Our times together lasted hours not minutes which is what I was used to. I think quickies have their place and are fun too but I just never knew a man could have so much control. And the gentleness of his touch in certain sensitive areas (my ex thought harder was better, kind of like I was a lawnmower with a pull sting start) He often had me orgasm several times before we actually got to the sex part.
It wasn't love though and that emotional attachment was never there. It was never going to be either and we both knew it. He had been hurt so bad by his long term partner and I had been severely hurt by my ex cheating on me with a friend.
We needed each other for a time and although I don't regret it I now know that it will be a love connection for me the next time I have sex. I need that honest and beautiful emotional connection to make it complete.
I am glad I have such a good experience to look back on and am even more glad that my last sexual encounter "memory" is not of my cheating ex-husband. I just want so much more now.

Is this a trick question!? Man Ive forgot how parts work. Please send instructions with full colored photos.

Thanx,

Hopelessly Revirginized

Hi, I Love Sex when there is an emotional bond. I believed marriage was until death due us part. But evidently I'm the only one that feels that way. YES!!!! I MISS IT!

absolutely.....but it is worth waiting to find the right person to experience it again....