I work for a lawyer. hope you have better values.

I would like to have the latest model and the bigest Hummer to drive. Preferably black with red details.

Then, I want a huge place built where its hellicopter acessable and be totally self sufficient.

Oh, and I want a hellacopter. Got to get away sometimes:)

Lastly, I want about 3 friends to live with me. Can you tell me how to find people who think like I do????

I'll go fly away with you but you have to do the flying. Where would you want to get away to, if you had a place big enough to land a hellicopter?

hi happywannab,

think It would be nice on an island where the temp was around 70 to 75 year round and its not humid. Lots of fertile ground for crops. Tons of pasture for, whatever.... Can, freeze and dry all kinds of stuff to be totally self sufficient.

I only started thinking about what I want for just 3 days now. My 18 year old son asked me what I wanted. After pondering something I had really never thought of, this is what I came up with. Been pondering ever since.

Sounds good to me! Some place with no stress. I have an 18 year old son as well and a 14 year old daughter (looks 18!) You can see her on my photo page. They make me old and keep me young at the same time. They want me to "have a life" now that they can pretty much take care of themselves. I am trying hard to make one for myself, still looking for what that actually means. I was a wife for 20 years and a mother for 18! Still trying to figure out what and who I am without defining myself as wife and mother only.

I know what you mean. I am still learning who I am. I find myself becoming what I have always wanted to be. Just me. Its that simple. You loose yourself in someone elses world. Thank thats the only world available. Its not. This is somehow quite difficult to explain. But it really does feel good. I can just be me. And, I really like me:)

finally

I would want to be thinner, more outgoing, more sure of myself, know how to fix things (handyman type work), think faster on my feet.

everything in life i wanted to be ,after 30 years in music publishing i became this. i have achieved my dreams.

but in my personal life
i only wanteed to be loved,,and ive suffered a terrible painful divorce of my 26 year marriage in 2006.
and simultaneously i survived breast cancer and treatment and now 2 surgeries for rt reconstruction

what do i want to be

whole

and loved again.
and this time im much much wiser.

Sounds like we are all going through the same thing, some farther along than others. We are all becoming who we want to be! I believe when we get there God will bring us someone like the real "US" to find love again. We just need this time to get ourselves right! It is good to know we are all going through the same things, we must be doing it right. We can't all be wrong, right ?!?!

I'm fine being me.

Good for you BeHave! As it should be!

A college professor. Own my own gym. I am alright where I am though. Nice picture Happy. You look like you are well on your way in changing your life to where you like to be.

Thanks, I am doing pretty well. That is why I choose to show my real pic. I want the world to know the real me. Finally, I kind of like her (me).

You know something? Being by myself has not been a bad thing at all. I am getting to know me and its WONDERFUL!!!!

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