I also did not feel good about my partners close connection with his mother accusing him of being too into her and feeling jealous of him calling her everyday. We eventually settled to him calling out of my sight.
Thats a solution for now. Yet I seem to be very possessive of his affections, especially for any females.
I can't seem to stand the idea of him liking or having feelings , of attraction, affection or anything for any other female.
He is awesome and is helping me. He has changed how he interacts with people in stores, being more reserved than he used to be.
I also hurt his friendships with some coworkers who seemed to be flirtatious around him and too friendly with him.
He does not even watch his shows because of me. We watch some animation or some documentary movies and a few rare other movies and often there are questions from me like ;did u see her', do you find that attractive' etc.
I believe that I was sexually abused in my childhood and have had other forms of abuse clearly. I am trying to face and heal them. Yet I have got to heal and make different choices.
I try to refrain from asking questions now and wait until I can get to love and trust.
I am a very nice person overall and loving to people in general.
Jealousy has got me hurting people deeply and I gotto stop hurting people I love or trying to make them prisoners.
Please help with suggestions on overcoming this and taking different behaviours when there is a trigger.